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Very attractive girls treat guys like ****

Anyone agree with me? It seems that a lot of attractive girls, who get an excessive amount of attention from the opposite sex (i.e. males) end up treating guys like **** and using them. After all, it's only logical: when you know that you don't have to worry about never finding a decent guy with good looks and a bit of money, why bother treating the guys you go out with, or any other guy for that matter, with respect?

Reply 1

El Scotto

15

I dont think you can blame girls.

You can only get treated like crap, if you let yourself get treated like crap.

Reply 2

scutt

1

No; you're looking in trailer parks.

Reply 3

Yodling Zeek

El Scotto

You can only get treated like crap, if you let yourself get treated like crap.

Agreed. It is however sometimes hard to realise you are being treated as such when you are to close to a situation to see it objectively... as I well know from recent experience :wink:

Though being attractive is no license to treat someone like crap, many attractive girls (and guys to be fair) do so because of an inflated belief in their own value. It's not right, but it happens. I do believe most people like that will at some point be burnt in the same way... tis the way of the world.
This is by no means a rule though, in fact I have been f***ed about the worst by a girl I wouldn't even consider all that amazingly attractive. Luckily I have enough self respect that when I realised what was going on I didn't put up with it one second longer... but as 'El Scotto' said, if you are aware of it and put up with it, then indeed you should give yourself and your self worth a severe examination :wink:

Reply 4

TommyD

1

Nah its true.
The 'attractive girls' are usually fairly bitchy, and look down on most. Thats from my experience anyway.
I believe theyre referred to as being 'up themselves.'

Anyway dont bother me. A nice down to earth, sensible lady anyday.

Reply 5

pendragon

13

Anonymous

Anyone agree with me? It seems that a lot of attractive girls, who get an excessive amount of attention from the opposite sex (i.e. males) end up treating guys like **** and using them. After all, it's only logical: when you know that you don't have to worry about never finding a decent guy with good looks and a bit of money, why bother treating the guys you go out with, or any other guy for that matter, with respect?

The trick is to treat such girls even worse than they treat you. Its just a harsh abrasive exterior they develop from being pestered so much. But if you show them youre not taking any crap from day one and you dont get intimidated they revert to needy sweet girls who will hang on your every word. Once you have established your dominance over such a girl, you can act normal again. What these girls really want is a challenge not another wimp they can use and abuse.

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

i've been told i'm an attractive girl (i model part time) and i'm the shyest unbitchy girl you'll meet i get treated like crap by guys not the other way round they just see me as an object the nice ones are too shy to ask me out so i dont think all attractive girls treat men like ****

Reply 7

TommyD

1

Anonymous

i've been told i'm an attractive girl (i model part time) and i'm the shyest unbitchy girl you'll meet i get treated like crap by guys not the other way round they just see me as an object the nice ones are too shy to ask me out so i dont think all attractive girls treat men like ****

Yeah sorry i do know there are many exceptions from the rule.
Solution to your problem - ask some of those nice shy guys out yourself. Us men shouldnt always have to do the asking!

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

i dont really trust men anymore and i'm far too shy to ask someone out as much as i'd like too. but i think if i did fall for someone big time i'd go for it instead of waiting around

Reply 9

Anonymous #3

Anonymous

i've been told i'm an attractive girl (i model part time) and i'm the shyest unbitchy girl you'll meet i get treated like crap by guys not the other way round they just see me as an object the nice ones are too shy to ask me out so i dont think all attractive girls treat men like ****

100% SAME. + There don't seem to be many nice, attractive guys that aren't surrounded by girls to begin with..

Reply 10

Knogle

16

Disagreed.

Be nice to them, approach them, and feel comfortable around them. They'll treat you well.

Of course if you're just being a hypocrite and being nice to them only because of the fact that they're attractive, then I can see why they don't react as you expect. :wink:

Reply 11

lovelee-jublee

12

Anonymous

Anyone agree with me? It seems that a lot of attractive girls, who get an excessive amount of attention from the opposite sex (i.e. males) end up treating guys like **** and using them. After all, it's only logical: when you know that you don't have to worry about never finding a decent guy with good looks and a bit of money, why bother treating the guys you go out with, or any other guy for that matter, with respect?

Is it just me that found that phrase slightly wierd?! What's the other 'opposite sex' to females!? Shims?! :p:

Reply 12

Apricot Fairy

16

Sometimes I wonder whether I treat guys badly...

Define treating badly. :redface:

Reply 13

myselfsd

pendragon

The trick is to treat such girls even worse than they treat you. Its just a harsh abrasive exterior they develop from being pestered so much. But if you show them youre not taking any crap from day one and you dont get intimidated they revert to needy sweet girls who will hang on your every word. Once you have established your dominance over such a girl, you can act normal again. What these girls really want is a challenge not another wimp they can use and abuse.

Amen.

Reply 14

serious narb

11

Anonymous

Anyone agree with me? It seems that a lot of attractive girls, who get an excessive amount of attention from the opposite sex (i.e. males) end up treating guys like **** and using them. After all, it's only logical: when you know that you don't have to worry about never finding a decent guy with good looks and a bit of money, why bother treating the guys you go out with, or any other guy for that matter, with respect?

no, you're wrong, next question...

Reply 15

john!!

1

pendragon

The trick is to treat such girls even worse than they treat you. Its just a harsh abrasive exterior they develop from being pestered so much. But if you show them youre not taking any crap from day one and you dont get intimidated they revert to needy sweet girls who will hang on your every word. Once you have established your dominance over such a girl, you can act normal again. What these girls really want is a challenge not another wimp they can use and abuse.

I think this is close but not quite accurate. You dont treat them worse, you show them that you don't look up to them. I don't think harsh and abrasive will get your anywhere, unless you can pull it off jokingly, which isn't what I think you meant.

Reply 16

Mush

17

Well if they find a partner of equal attention and good looks then probably not. But for smart ugly guys like me we just get the **** end of the stick coz we're good at homework=]:P

Reply 17

anjurdsg

11

yea....exactly my point....

attractive girls go for MACHO, ALPHA males...

average, pussy, needy, clingy guys get treated like animal-poop, yes...

Read my posts on the threads "What do women look for" and "Women......." thread.... I win!

Reply 18

Anonymous #4

pendragon

... if you show them youre not taking any crap from day one and you dont get intimidated they revert to needy sweet girls who will hang on your every word. Once you have established your dominance over such a girl, you can act normal again. What these girls really want is a challenge not another wimp they can use and abuse.

hahahaha

Nice idea, but unfortunately complete ****
'Needy sweet girls who will hang on your every word' don't exist except in soaps and mental institutions.
You won't 'establish your dominance', she'll just sling you.
Be realistic and ditch anyone who gives you ****.

Reply 19

ChemistBoy

16

If you get a lot of attention, you take it for granted. Taking things for granted is often seen as being mean.

Very attractive girls treat guys like ****

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