Help!

Sorry for the use of anon here, don't want to be found out by my mate who writes on here occasionally, as i'm about to mention them.

Ok, well, i've been in a relationship for about two years now (with person X), and everythings as happy between us as it could be. However, I've started being attracted to someone else (person Y), and i'm 99.9% positive they like me to (all the usual and obvious signs), and person Y knows i like them too, as i make it obvious aswell (to make things difficult). I do enjoy the 'chemistry' there between me and person Y, and I certainly wouldn't consider dumping person X for person Y, as i'm not like that and really don't want to end something so perfect between me and person X, but i feel that i do want to do things with person Y!!!!! What shall i do?

Reply 1

username47781

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If your happy in a relationship why bother straying someone always gets hurt, don't even consider going there, i mean if ever u did break it off and went with Person Y how would you know if it would work out, basically if person Y tries coming onto you if you really love your boyfriend you would tell Person Y to back off.

Reply 2

crazyhead

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If you feel you might do things with person Y then something aint right with your relationship with person X

Reply 3

username47781

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Well if its the case that things aren't right with Person X make a clean break first before you pursue Person Y, but Person X may think everything is ok and would be very hurt if you broke it off like that, i mean it's 2 years that will be thrown away but its your choice.

Reply 4

Tarts_n_Vicars

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Anonymous

Sorry for the use of anon here, don't want to be found out by my mate who writes on here occasionally, as i'm about to mention them.

Ok, well, i've been in a relationship for about two years now (with person X), and everythings as happy between us as it could be. However, I've started being attracted to someone else (person Y), and i'm 99.9% positive they like me to (all the usual and obvious signs), and person Y knows i like them too, as i make it obvious aswell (to make things difficult). I do enjoy the 'chemistry' there between me and person Y, and I certainly wouldn't consider dumping person X for person Y, as i'm not like that and really don't want to end something so perfect between me and person X, but i feel that i do want to do things with person Y!!!!! What shall i do?

Not like what exactly? Already you're disrespecting person X by flirting with person Y (so much so that it is in your own words "obvious") and are enjoying it....how much more of a bad person would you be if you went the whole hog with them?? You don't want to end things with X but want to pursue things with Y...the only option you have is to cheat isn't it?

Just because you haven't actually done anything physical with Y the intent is obviously there which is almost as bad as doing it!