How do you know when a lad likes you?

I'm going to do the opposite from the ' how do we know if a girl likes you? (men).

I'm not very good at knowing whether a lad likes me or not, an example would be when I thought this lad hated me, he would tease me and make fun of me... :rolleyes:

( he use to try and trip me over....but that never works, he usually trips over instead which I find ever so funny).

THEN suddenly one simple sunny morning, I was walking in the corridor and his friends pointed at me and kept pushing him towards me and that was the point where he admitted how he felt... I was shocked and my face was probably like :eek:

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So can the lads tell us girls who don't get the hints, how they act around a girl they like? :redface:

Sezkin

Erection?

I act stupidly obvious and scare them off :frown:

Reply 3

Flank Runner

well theres multiple ways
and every lad is goignto kill em for giving out our secrets :frown:

but yeah theres the silly method,
where we act all weird and stupid around you

the touchy bloke
who can't stop touching you, hugging you and generally being around you

the laugher
the guy thats always laughing, cracking jokes, or fooling around

the sensitive guy
that can talk for hours to you about absolutely sod all, (i'm a mix between this guy, the laugher and the touchy bloke)

then theres the most annoying git ever, who just kind of blanks you thinking that not speaking to you will get your attention, hmmm :confused:

but thats all i know about it, but generally if he acts differently than normal around you in a positive way, then he likes you especially if he keeps touching you

Reply 4

silverbolt

19

i make jokes nd do the pretend but serious "i really like you" line and gauge her reaction

Reply 5

Sezkin

OP

11

Flank Runner

well theres multiple ways
and every lad is goignto kill em for giving out our secrets :frown:

but yeah theres the silly method,
where we act all weird and stupid around you

the touchy bloke
who can't stop touching you, hugging you and generally being around you

the laugher
the guy thats always laughing, cracking jokes, or fooling around

the sensitive guy
that can talk for hours to you about absolutely sod all, (i'm a mix between this guy, the laugher and the touchy bloke)

then theres the most annoying git ever, who just kind of blanks you thinking that not speaking to you will get your attention, hmmm :confused:

but thats all i know about it, but generally if he acts differently than normal around you in a positive way, then he likes you especially if he keeps touching you

Thats an interesting post :p:

You know I enjoy reading some of your posts :biggrin:

Anyway, yeah I guess lads have different ways of flirting, I find the ones that tease and makes fun of me are the ones I don't really like,thinking that he doesn't like me but it does depend how he teases, for e.g. cheeky,funny comments would be acceptable :p:

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Personally,I like lads who are confident (not overly confident btw, where you start boosting and showing off to get attention).And also any lads who randomly talk to me would definitely grab my attention,I like randomness :wink:

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The 'annoying' lad who totally blanks you, would obviously not get noticed because us girls can't read your mind, unless some of us are psychic.. :ninja:

Sezkin

Reply 6

UtterNutter69

Looking at your tits is an obvious one, laughing at anything you say (lets face it, chicks usually arent that funny - no offense) and possibly asking if you're going to a certain place, like theres a social gathering of some sort and he says are you going to so and so's tonight?

Reply 7

Flank Runner

thank you all, i aim to please and offer as much of my little wisdom as possible btw sezkin,

BOO, there that random enough for ya :p:

and also while i'm at it there is also one other type of flirt, the guy who pretends to be the wing man, dont know how many guys use this tactic, but basically you pretend to be trying to set your mate up with one of her mates, start talking and blam try and get to know the girl, i personnally havent tried it i tend to stick to just talking and flirting with the girl, but hey whatever floats your boat :smile:

Reply 8

Princess Ella

how about-when his mates tell u?that's the worst-on msn or by sms is also really annoying

Reply 9

Flank Runner

ah but you must remember that some lads arent as confident as others and to them rejection by txt or msn is easier to cope with, i personnally dont bother with such things although i did have a relationship over msn once, and you neednt ask it didnt end well :frown:

and so alone again i ponder the mysteries of the universe, but yeah cut a guy some slack, he may simply be shy

Reply 10

myselfsd

Flank Runner

the guy who pretends to be the wing man

Yeah I tried that...it didn't work

Reply 11

Flank Runner

thanks for the reply dude, yeah i'll stick to just talking and flirting makes more sense than playing head games, actually were you the wing man or did you bring a wingman cause i know theres two methods :confused:

Reply 12

myselfsd

i was a genuine wingman but i kinda fancied this chick too...but i was doing my job too well and we ended up becoming firm friends rather than anything else and now its got to the situation where I couldn't really see us together and she would just think it wierdd i'm sure.

Reply 13

Flank Runner

hmmm tough break sorry to hear that dude, maybe next time :biggrin:

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