Eh?

met a guy last monday, we had a drunken one night stand, or so i thought

bbut he asked me to go for a drink friday, we did, he seemed really into me, and i liked him, and so we arranged to go out monday. monday was cool, we kissed and he walked me home and it was all nice

we went out again tuesday night with his bro and his bro's girlfriend, but we didnt really flirt loads or anything.

last night i went to his to watch a film with him n his mates, i wasnt being very flirty cos i'm shy, but nor was he. He walked me home after, and left without a hug or kiss or anything :frown:

Now, I dunno if he's not interested, he seemed like he was friday and monday, but now he is less so. Or maybe its my fault giving off the wrong signs? I mean he seems to want to spend time with me, but when we do and theres no alcohol, it just seems very pally. Maybe he's shy too, I dunno

Anyway, I was considering 2 options, firstly i could just flirt way more and see what happens, but since i'mrubbish at this,i'm also considering just being honest, and asking him straight out wether i'm getting the wrong end of the stick or not, and being honest with him.

what to do!! any advice guys?

Reply 1

Sarky

Be honest. That way you'll know where you stand hopefully.

Reply 2

anjurdsg

to me that does look like a shy guy... alcohol probably gave him confidence the other night ... well, i dunno... that's just me

Reply 3

Monkey_Maiden

He sounds a lot like a friend of mine. He's very shy but when he has alcohol or in some random situations hes quite loud and confident. a couple of weeeknds ago we were in town and drinking and we kissed and he said he kinda me but now he won't admit anything or even mention it.
Sounds like your guy is the same, very shy, maybe you could just talk to him on his own and explain how you feel.
Good luck