The Student Room Group

I'm going mad over a boy-and no im not proud of it !!

Ok so i dont post much at the mo (i lost my password and im far to stupid to get resetting it right away-but now im back so yey!)

So my problem.
I met this really cool guy at a club two weeks ago and we got on brilliantly. Then he told me he lives in Russia (he teaches english there) and wont be back until May.
That night he stayed at mine and it was all lovely and rosy and the next day we spent a little time together before my lecture.
He added me to his msn while he was with me and emailed me a couple of days after. We have since been texting and he says how much he likes me and all that crap and the other night he even called me (from moscow no less!).
My last text from him was yesterday and was in response to a naughty one i sent him.
Now im going abso nuts cos i dont know why he's not texted me.
When i read what i've just written i feel like a grade A idiot but i dont know what to do.

Men.

What would you do?

Lizzy x

Scroll to see replies

Reply 1
LizzyLizzy
Ok so i dont post much at the mo (i lost my password and im far to stupid to get resetting it right away-but now im back so yey!)

So my problem.
I met this really cool guy at a club two weeks ago and we got on brilliantly. Then he told me he lives in Russia (he teaches english there) and wont be back until May.
That night he stayed at mine and it was all lovely and rosy and the next day we spent a little time together before my lecture.
He added me to his msn while he was with me and emailed me a couple of days after. We have since been texting and he says how much he likes me and all that crap and the other night he even called me (from moscow no less!).
My last text from him was yesterday and was in response to a naughty one i sent him.
Now im going abso nuts cos i dont know why he's not texted me.
When i read what i've just written i feel like a grade A idiot but i dont know what to do.

Men.

What would you do?

Lizzy x


chill
Reply 2
what did you write?
Awww. This sounds like a promising relationship to me.

Perhaps there's a legitimate reason why he hasn't texted you? Leave it another day and if you haven't heard from him email him or text again and ask if he's ok.

It's just that old thing at the beginning of a relationship with someone you *really* like you have those big ups and downs, and sometimes feel powerless.

Good luck :smile:
Reply 4
Awww you really think it sounds promising? excellent , thats reassuring. Thanks spacedonkey! I think i just needed a bit of comfort x
Trentend? what did i write in what?
Lizzy x
Reply 5
what did you write in your text?
Reply 6
Umm while i sent him a naughty one while he was at work and he replied and seemed quite chuffed with it. So i wrote back something along the lines of -i aim to please. Hows your day been?- and since then bugger all x
Reply 7
I cannot stress this enough: relax.
Reply 8
I know i know , im trying. I was soooo good at doing the whole aloof thing at first . But that stage was very short lived.
Do you guys think he will text ?
LizzyLizzy
I know i know , im trying. I was soooo good at doing the whole aloof thing at first . But that stage was very short lived.
Do you guys think he will text ?


He might not even have got your last text! Mobile communications are not 100% reliable - try texting him again tomorrow ... you won't look like a crazed stalker, honest :biggrin:
Reply 10
Especially to Russia!

Mobile phones are like a brand new invention there! lol!

Just kidding any Russians on the boards, Russia is not that backward! But yeh mobile and GSM is unreliable when going abroad so text again. I remember texting my closest friend from the Carribean...it was pretty hit and miss whether it would arrive back to her in the UK!!

Graham
Reply 11
you're OBSESSED with him...

I wont be of much help here, but can I ask you something?

Can you describe this individual to me? I'm just curious... you said something about "naughty"... expand further, please...
Reply 12
anjurdsg
you're OBSESSED with him...

I wont be of much help here, but can I ask you something?

Can you describe this individual to me? I'm just curious... you said something about "naughty"... expand further, please...


Wow mate that sounds just a little pervy!
Reply 13
I am NOT obsessed! I just like him , theres not harm in that.
Why do you want me to describe him to you? Surely thats irrelevant?

I was thinking i'd give it a day or so more and then text just asking how he is? what do you think?

Spacedonkey- crazed stalker..hehe. I'm worried he might see it that way tho.
Reply 14
umm don't worry he'll reply.. i can totally relate to you.. waiting for someone to reply is really harrrddd!! :biggrin: i mean it seems to have been a lot longer since you last heard from them than it has actually been.. but i know the feeling and it really is okay to feel that way and you aren't going mad over him.. its just... emotions.. :smile:
Reply 15
wait a few days since you last messaged him until you message him.. ask him if he's still alive or something.. lol
Reply 16
You guys are great .. thanks so much!!

So heres an update- He emailed me!! With pictures of him and russia no less! Loves it.
And we spoke very breifly on msn (theres a first :smile: )

I'll keep you posted x
Reply 17
hehehe.. :smile: thats so cute... and i hope i can stop waiting too.. :frown:
Reply 18
hey blah ,whats happening with you?
Reply 19
umm just a long distance thinger.. we both like each other.. but he thinks we should be friends for now.. because of the distance and the low probablity of us meeting in the near future.... umm yea n hes horrible at keeping in touch!! i would have thought he had disappeared if i didnt call him so much!!