Ok so i dont post much at the mo (i lost my password and im far to stupid to get resetting it right away-but now im back so yey!)
So my problem. I met this really cool guy at a club two weeks ago and we got on brilliantly. Then he told me he lives in Russia (he teaches english there) and wont be back until May. That night he stayed at mine and it was all lovely and rosy and the next day we spent a little time together before my lecture. He added me to his msn while he was with me and emailed me a couple of days after. We have since been texting and he says how much he likes me and all that crap and the other night he even called me (from moscow no less!). My last text from him was yesterday and was in response to a naughty one i sent him. Now im going abso nuts cos i dont know why he's not texted me. When i read what i've just written i feel like a grade A idiot but i dont know what to do.
Ok so i dont post much at the mo (i lost my password and im far to stupid to get resetting it right away-but now im back so yey!)
So my problem. I met this really cool guy at a club two weeks ago and we got on brilliantly. Then he told me he lives in Russia (he teaches english there) and wont be back until May. That night he stayed at mine and it was all lovely and rosy and the next day we spent a little time together before my lecture. He added me to his msn while he was with me and emailed me a couple of days after. We have since been texting and he says how much he likes me and all that crap and the other night he even called me (from moscow no less!). My last text from him was yesterday and was in response to a naughty one i sent him. Now im going abso nuts cos i dont know why he's not texted me. When i read what i've just written i feel like a grade A idiot but i dont know what to do.
Awww. This sounds like a promising relationship to me.
Perhaps there's a legitimate reason why he hasn't texted you? Leave it another day and if you haven't heard from him email him or text again and ask if he's ok.
It's just that old thing at the beginning of a relationship with someone you *really* like you have those big ups and downs, and sometimes feel powerless.
Awww you really think it sounds promising? excellent , thats reassuring. Thanks spacedonkey! I think i just needed a bit of comfort x Trentend? what did i write in what? Lizzy x
Umm while i sent him a naughty one while he was at work and he replied and seemed quite chuffed with it. So i wrote back something along the lines of -i aim to please. Hows your day been?- and since then bugger all x
I know i know , im trying. I was soooo good at doing the whole aloof thing at first . But that stage was very short lived. Do you guys think he will text ?
I know i know , im trying. I was soooo good at doing the whole aloof thing at first . But that stage was very short lived. Do you guys think he will text ?
He might not even have got your last text! Mobile communications are not 100% reliable - try texting him again tomorrow ... you won't look like a crazed stalker, honest
Mobile phones are like a brand new invention there! lol!
Just kidding any Russians on the boards, Russia is not that backward! But yeh mobile and GSM is unreliable when going abroad so text again. I remember texting my closest friend from the Carribean...it was pretty hit and miss whether it would arrive back to her in the UK!!
umm don't worry he'll reply.. i can totally relate to you.. waiting for someone to reply is really harrrddd!! i mean it seems to have been a lot longer since you last heard from them than it has actually been.. but i know the feeling and it really is okay to feel that way and you aren't going mad over him.. its just... emotions..
umm just a long distance thinger.. we both like each other.. but he thinks we should be friends for now.. because of the distance and the low probablity of us meeting in the near future.... umm yea n hes horrible at keeping in touch!! i would have thought he had disappeared if i didnt call him so much!!