Problemo!!!

got a bit of a problem and its driving me crazy!!! me and my mates were on ferry yesterday and met a group of girls, we got close and my mate anded up sleepin with one of girls and i slept with another one, i really liked this girl even though only met her for a few days. thing is tho the morning we splet together was the morning we had to get off ferry and my mates and i quicky departed as had to get back early for work, we fort wed see them later that morning bt we didnt get chance and i never really said bye to her! (i left b4 she woke up! stupid i no!!) not sure if i have right mobile number for her as when i text im getting no reply?? normaly i wud take this as a hint and guess she isnt interested but as we splet together im kina guessin this aint the case!! is she pissed off and thinks that ive gotten wot i wanted and left with out sayn bye on purpose?? this is not the case as i cant stop thinking about her and would love to meet her again. or shall i just give it time and hope she contacts meanyone got any advice on wot i can do? :confused:

Reply 1

Liam The Eagle

.................why don't you ring the number? tah dah, problem solved

give it time mate

OP

i did that and it just rings then goes voicemail!! i know its not looking good for me( oh ****!!! ) but we got on well and stuff!! probly just leave it and see if she gets in touch. to be honest im more bothered that she may be thinking that i used her just to get sex, cant be nice for her if thats what she does believe! but i didnt, honestly strated to have feelings for her and now i no that may not c her again it it kinda hurts!!! cheers mate any way! any more people have any views??

Reply 4

bluedreamer

1

**EDIT**
Don’t want to seem cruel :wink:

Reply 5

Helenia

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Anonymous

i did that and it just rings then goes voicemail!! i know its not looking good for me( oh ****!!! ) but we got on well and stuff!! probly just leave it and see if she gets in touch. to be honest im more bothered that she may be thinking that i used her just to get sex, cant be nice for her if thats what she does believe! but i didnt, honestly strated to have feelings for her and now i no that may not c her again it it kinda hurts!!! cheers mate any way! any more people have any views??

Well, if you've texted her and rung her, it's obvious (assuming it is her number) that you are interesting in more than just sex.

To be honest, it's not like meeting on a ferry is ideal for a relationship, as you know you'll be leaving it very soon and going off in different directions. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. C'est la vie.

Oh and I can't help but giggle at "splet with her"

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Well, if you've texted her and rung her, it's obvious (assuming it is her number) that you are interesting in more than just sex.

yer suppose ur right, hope she sees it like that.

im guessing she just aint intereseted though if she aint gettn back in touch....and girls say boys are complicated to work out!!! :rolleyes:

keep these views coming...the more the the merrier

Reply 7

strange

does your friend have the number of the girl she slept with, becaue maybe that girl has the number of the girl you slept with?

If she does you could check to see if it's right, or use the other girl to get in touch with her.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Ive asked all my mates if they got any of their numbers and they didnt?! do not ask me why!!! weve had a mare there :stupid:

!!! my mate who got with the other girl proberly didnt coz he said he was just in it for the sex. do u rekon they'll stereotype me and think that im just like my mate? guna give it a week to see if i hear from her then after that guess il just have to leave it!! good idea?

Reply 9

strange

weel, do you know her last name? maybe you could look her up? I would give you a few more tips, but I don't want people thinking I've had experience stalking or anything :eek:

joking. Hm, do you know what she does? If you know about what she "does" like what school she goes to or where she works you can look it up online to see if that place has a website and if her contact information is listed.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

well she finaly text bk sayin hiya an that there thinking bowt coming down near us lot of a night out soon! however she dint specificaly say wed meet up? dnt really no wot to think, does she want to meet me or did she just want a one night stand that night? hm questions questions questions!!!!! :confused:

Reply 11

Aberdonian*Lass

1

All you can do is be encouraging and keep up the contact...maybe she's just shy and not wanting to be embarrassed by you brushing her off if she says it would be nice to meet up. If that sort of thing doesnt bother you then just keep letting her know you're interested (in a nice way obviously!). As Helenia said...if she's not interested back then "c'est la vie"

Problemo!!!

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