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Reply 1
can u help me

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in school i need some help and peer pressuer and it is realy bringing me down an di can't take it no more so can somewone help me???
Reply 2
Can you rephrase the question?
Reply 3
im in school and im always down and people pick on me and it is peer puressure and i can't take it any more and it hurts
Reply 4
it like im always down and never happy WHY IS THAT?
Reply 5
ahh- sweeitie- dont get down. Some people are just mean b*itches and treat everyone and anyone like crap. Believe me, when you get older you'll look back and wish you'd stuck up for yourself and realise how little those people mean to you.
Be yourself- there's noone else you can be. Live everyday with a smile, and go to sleep with an even bigger smile. I really hope you see that there are nice people in the world to- you just have to find them.
Big huge hugs xxx:smile:
Reply 6
i thought that peer pressure was more commonly when you feel the need to do whatever those around you are doing, with things like smoking etc.

but nevertheless, it seems that some sound advice and help might be of use in this situation. i would suggest talking to someone in your school, like a teacher, welfare officer, or even school nurse, about it.
Reply 7
Totally agree silence :p:
Reply 8
Lillybut
ahh- sweeitie- dont get down. Some people are just mean b*itches and treat everyone and anyone like crap. Believe me, when you get older you'll look back and wish you'd stuck up for yourself and realise how little those people mean to you.
Be yourself- there's noone else you can be. Live everyday with a smile, and go to sleep with an even bigger smile. I really hope you see that there are nice people in the world to- you just have to find them.
Big huge hugs xxx:smile:



ya thanks i try 2 be friends with people and my close friends r there for me and somtimes there nt
Reply 9
Lillybut
Totally agree silence :p:


so u feel me? causz it's harder in high school then in middle
Reply 10
silence
i thought that peer pressure was more commonly when you feel the need to do whatever those around you are doing, with things like smoking etc.

but nevertheless, it seems that some sound advice and help might be of use in this situation. i would suggest talking to someone in your school, like a teacher, welfare officer, or even school nurse, about it.


ya but it do not help and i feel that im all alone y is that?
Reply 11
well, although they can help sometimes, i guess that it certain figures of authority can have a relatively loose idea of the cruelty and such stuff that goes on in schools. maybe join some clubs or society and make a new set of friends.
Reply 12
silence
well, although they can help sometimes, i guess that it certain figures of authority can have a relatively loose idea of the cruelty and such stuff that goes on in schools. maybe join some clubs or society and make a new set of friends.


ya i will thanks i like making new friends [QUOTE]
Reply 13
if you need help, talk to your teachers.. or your form teacher..
Reply 14
pumpkin7
if you need help, talk to your teachers.. or your form teacher..


oh ok
Reply 15
seriously.. they are the best people to talk to because they can help you. you will feel much better.
Reply 16
mate i feel so sorry for you.

when i was in high school, i didnt drink/go out/sex/drugs and so as a result, all the hard people used to pick on me.

but you know what? those same people are drop outs and losers, half of them single mothers, and the other half totally insecure without their cushion of popularity from high school.

it hurts you now but in the long term you ll be stronger. i hated every minute of high school. but im at uni now, and im not ashamed of my beliefs or to be different. and i hardly speak to anyone from high school.

what year are you in?

if you are bullied, definately report it so they'll get kicked out. dont take no sh*t.
Reply 17
shinytoy
but you know what? those same people are drop outs and losers, half of them single mothers, and the other half totally insecure without their cushion of popularity from high school.

I love that. I wasn't ever given a hard time at school, but I wasn't exactly part of the crowd who liked to think that they were popular. Here I am now with 3, potentially 4, offers for Medicine at the unis that I really want to go to and there they are with all 6 rejections. These people may be accepted during their time at school, but then won't be prepared for a rejection by the big bad world.
Reply 18
you know, it isn't always a bad thing being a drop out - i dropped out of college.. doesn't mean i am stupid. i just wasn't happy.

of course, not that i want to defend these losers - they probably did have to drop out because they are thick *****. i know someone who goes to a terrible college (whereby i mean it's full of others who weren't good enough to go anywhere else), and is thinking of dropping out to start a career at sainsbury's.
mm.
Reply 19
when you have left school youll see how smallthose people are! Dont be beaten by them, everyones been through this, even them! There is someone there all the time! When people say you have to tell someone, that doesnt mean the bullies knowing, it just means making somebody aware of the situation. Beat the Bullies!