hello
i love my religion and i have had a good upbringing which means i like to do nice things for everyone. man/woman/child.
i like to do cute things, like randomly get a friend a really cute gift cos they are sad or i see something they d like. or organise a surprise party for a friends birthday when they dont even know i know it is their birthday. or calling someone randomly that i hardly speak to just cos i notice they r not in lectures recently to checjk they r ok. or going far out of my way to help someone who i dont know that well. like i felt sorry for a guy i vaguely know cos he didnt get a work placement, but i did. so i spend alot of time and $ copying all my work and applications to help him in the future. and i offered to go through stuff with him.
people get really nasty and weird about this. men think i fancy them/want to marry them. women get totally b*tchy and think i want something from them, and are wary of me and ask me weird questions and seems suspicious
anyone else have this?what do i do?
its so sad in this world that we cant even be nice to each other without motives.