drunken kiss

Ok, it's one of those pathetic sounding calls for help!
I've really liked this lad in the year below for a few months. We usually smile and say say when we see each other, then last week at a party we kissed. We were both drunk (him much more than me) and I don't know whether he remembers, even though it happened a few times. I've only seen him directly once since - it may be paranoia but he seems to be avoiding me (or avoiding catching my eye at least). At the party he said to my friend he liked me and she told him about me fancying him. I want to talk to him, even if its just for him to say sorry but he was really drunk and it shouldnt have happened....I am really shy though and naturally flinch away from these sort of situations.

Any advice on what to do/say?

Reply 1

Sazarina88

Do you know any of his friends?

Do you have any other way of contacting him apart from speaking directly to him?

Reply 2

Toy Soldier

It's just a drunken kiss! God the number of kissing orgies I got into at school when drunk. I mean how do you look another man in the eye after he's tried to stick his tongue in your, because everything's just become a confused jumble of mouthes? I'll tell you: give it a few days, and it'll go away.

Reply 3

so_this_is_sam

There isnt any need to be shy, drunken kisses happen all the time! If you like this boy,then i think you should try and talk to him, or spend some time with him to see how things are between you. It may be that he's avoiding u because he feels embarrassed also, and if that's the case you will never know what's going on! Get some courage and find out where you stand!!! Good luck

Reply 4

lizg

No not really...
My best friend is friends with him...
+no,I haven't got his number or anything. (though he does have mine, adding to confusion!)

Reply 5

Toy Soldier

Lizg

I haven't got his number or anything. (though he does have mine, adding to confusion!)

Are you sure he has it? I mean... there are probably quite a lot of girls who think I have their number, and I've deleted it because I couldn't remember who they were.

Reply 6

lizg

Toy Soldier

Are you sure he has it? I mean... there are probably quite a lot of girls who think I have their number, and I've deleted it because I couldn't remember who they were.