i'm 18 and afraid of ever being/doing anything with a guy Watch
I'm not having a go at you for feeling insecure about it, because a few years ago I felt exactly the same way. I truly believed I was in the minority for having larger labia and despised them entirely. I have since grown up, overcome this ridiculous worry and have realised that any decent guy couldn't care less. I was so nervous about letting see my vagina at first, even my boyfriend at the time whom I was very comfortable with, so you can imagine my shock when he told me I had a NICE vagina.
I have been with several guys since I lost my virginity and not one of them has ever flinched or made a comment about my labia. I am so glad that I am now mature enough to realise that vaginas come in all shapes and sizes, and that mine is by no means "weird" or "disgusting". My current boyfriend loves them and actually believes it makes sex more pleasurable.
I honestly hope you can see past this such minor detail, stop letting it take over your life, and have fun at uni!
i'm 18 and a girl and i've never been in a relationship because of the way my vagina looks, i have what is 'big labia' or how guys put it 'meat curtains' and this just makes me feel awful and unattractive. i know this from my friends, they once all laughed about it and i just didn;t say anything but it totally upset me. i know what you see in the media is different to what real women look like but i just feel completely abnormal and so i'm scared of ever getting close to anyone incase they laugh or make my self esteem worse, and so i'm getting upset cause i'll be going to uni this year and i know i won't be able to do the normal stuff that everyone else does. it's getting me down and i don;t know what to do. i'm thinking about labiaplasty, i watched videos and girls like me seem to undergo this surgery, i'm thinking of leaving it a year and if seriously i never get a bf or a guy that doesn't mind then i'm getting it. is there actually any girls feeling like me or any guys with girlfriends like this or if anyone has any thoughts about this? is this a thing guys really think/talk about?
Edit: Negged because vag's are actually beautiful perfect things? Come ooooon. Genitalia in general are just sad looking, no need to get defensive, not like I'm pretending my **** is beautiful.
Just go for it! I do heheh