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What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:
  • Violence
  • Constant lying
  • Adultery
  • Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance
  • Immaturity
  • Misogyny
  • Disrespectful, ill-mannered and having bad manners
  • Sense of entitlement
  • Pushover/doesn't stand up for me, himself or our relationship
  • Arrogance/condescending nature
  • No work ethic
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What would be a dealbreakers or a series of delabreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:
  • Violence
  • Adultery
  • Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness
  • Immaturity
  • Disrespect
  • Sense of entitlement
  • Arrogance
All of the above plus bad manners, wanting children, poor work ethic and lack of desire to travel


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Dishonesty I think, then maybe disrespect (there's a few things that would come under here so I'll just say this).

You can probably work on most things or at least compromise. I know someone above said wanting children, I'm the opposite cos I want children (not yet though), I'm 23 and if I had a girlfriend who was 18-23 and didn't want children I wouldn't not date her cos of it. I might ask her again in a few years... I know loads of people who said they didn't want kids and are now proud parents.
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All of the above plus bad manners, wanting children, poor work ethic and lack of desire to travel


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I think this is more of a personal one than a general deal breaker? I mean, I do want to have kids of my own at some point in life.
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What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:
  • Violence
  • Constant lying
  • Adultery
  • Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance
  • Immaturity
  • Misogyny
  • Disrespect
  • Sense of entitlement
  • Arrogance
  • No work ethic
What would you define as immaturity?
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What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:
  • Violence
  • Constant lying
  • Adultery
  • Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance
  • Immaturity
  • Misogyny
  • Disrespect
  • Sense of entitlement
  • Arrogance
  • No work ethic

(Original post by abbyheat)
All of the above plus bad manners... lack of desire to travel


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I think that's all of them for me. I have a thing against pet names too - can't stand being called 'baby' but it wouldn't be a dealbreaker per se.
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Smoking (anything regularly)
Not being able to hold an intelligent conversation
Lazy
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What would you define as immaturity?
Not acting like an adult, acting like a spoilt brat, not listening, not knowing to.walk away from certain battles....
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What would be a dealbreakers or a series of dealbreakers for you if you were in a relationship?

For me:
  • Violence
  • Constant lying
  • Adultery
  • Racism and homophobia and general narrow-mindedness and ignorance
  • Immaturity
  • Misogyny
  • Disrespect
  • Sense of entitlement
  • Pushover/doesn't stand up for me, himself or our relationship
  • Arrogance/condescending nature
  • No work ethic
Surely no man/woman is that terrible, are they? I mean, have you ever come across someone who possesses ALL these undesirable qualities?
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Surely no man/woman is that terrible, are they? I mean, have you ever come across someone who possesses ALL these undesirable qualities?
Nope
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