Am i right to be a little bit confused and weirded out by her? Watch

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Ive known her for a few years and i did had feelings in the past for her but well she lied about having a BF before which kind of killed my feelings for her. A while back she started being odd with me again sending mixed signs. I asked if she had a BF to which she replied yes, so i thought maybe it was all in my head. However out of the blue she wondered why i was single still. I was a little taken back by this, i thought maybe it was just curiosity but i realised again that shes trying to find out about my life again. She gave me the impression that she feels im always getting into situations with girls but i dont get why shes so interested all of a sudden.

I told her flat out not to worry im not waiting around for her that ive moved. I did also say that many feel shes still lying but i didnt and if she was to expext me to end our friendship for good. She then kinda seemed a bit panicked and asked weather i was still talking to one of her friends.

So my question is was i right to feel a bit confused and did i do the right thing and put it all out in the open. How much should i read into her panic as to weather im speaking to her friend still?
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I had a pretty similar situation with a guy I liked and I couldn't work out anything he said or did to me so yeah, I think you're right to be confused. Her panic about you speaking to one of her friends could be because she is lying and she's worried her friend will tell you the truth..
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Maybe she lied in panic because she didnt want you to think she was available (i once did this, told my best friend i was still kind of with my ex because i knew that my best friend was going to ask me out, he then accidently mentioned it in passing to my ex who then assumed we were still a couple and the break up was just angry words. Everything got messy and i was stuck in the relationship for longer. I learned my lesson!)

But yeah, someone who lies to you or messes with your emotions, even just once is not worth the hassle. Dont write her off completely but dont hold out for her or let her curiosity act as a stimulus for inducing hope or feelings. It's really **** when you like someone incompatible or imperfect. But you deserve someone better than a girl who kight compromise your emotional wellbeing in the future.

So even though i did the same thing as her, i still would be weary of her of i were you.
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