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Why do girls/women cheat?

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Reply 60

guys! stop fuelling the fire....shes a troll, just ignore. :smile:

Reply 61

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by Anonymous
If my boyfriend isn't showing me the attention and is treating me like I don't exsist, then yeah I will be out seeing somebody else.


You are a coward.

Reply 62

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by SillyMilly
im in a very satisfying relationship thankyou :smile: anyway contiune to have your chylymidia fuelled fun !


ha you clearly angry all the time, guess you don't get laid much haha

Reply 63

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by hot hot
ha you clearly angry all the time, guess you don't get laid much haha


I most likely have a much more exciting fufiling and enjoyable sex life then you do with a man I love and care for but anyway i dont need to boast on an internet forum goodbye

Reply 64

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by Anonymous
I will freely admit that I cheated on my boyfriend, it's not something I'm proud of, it's not something I will ever try to justify it to you, him or myself, but it happened, he forgave me and we're past it now. I cannot say why I did it, I don't even know. If you are one of those people who say 'it has nothing to do with alcohol' stop reading now. I was very drunk every time and I can honestly say that being teetotal has made a difference.

It's not about getting away with it, I never expected to get away with it, but then I also never expected to do it either, I didn't go out thinking tonight I am going to cheat, the thought didn't enter my mind and its not like I was going up to guys with the intention of cheating, if a guy a approached me, I guess I just didn't know how to say no, that's if my drunk self was able to say anything at all.


I've been saying the same thing on this message board for ages. What you said describes the sort of mentality a woman who cheats has in the majority of cases, where they can be talked into it or succumb to peer pressure/alcohol. This is why I don't like night clubs.

I agree where you say alcohol does have something to do with it, because it does. Having something to do with it and it being justifiable are two very different things though, thus you're still responsible for your actions as you decided to drink the alcohol.

I see the same lines being pulled out by women who've cheated all the time; "I don't know why I cheated" and "I didn't intend to cheat", when the reality is you simply put yourself in a position where temptation was rife and you were too weak-willed to turn it down. This is why you "don't know" why you cheated, because you didn't plan to do it (which I believe, but that's down to being naive I think).

Reply 65

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by SillyMilly
I most likely have a much more exciting fufiling and enjoyable sex life then you do with a man I love and care for but anyway i dont need to boast on an internet forum goodbye


have a nice life loser

Reply 66

Because the satisfaction gained when you use a pick four in UNO is too great so it leads to temptation. :cry:

Reply 67

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by SillyMilly
Its nothing to do with gender although I do think that women turn on the water works, try to pain the guy out as the baddie or make out they were so drunk it wasnt there fault whereas guys are obviously the stronger ones so can hardly use to poor old little m line.

Peopl cheat because they are selfish they dont think about the other people they will hurt they just think of themselves they want something and they will do it regardless

There is never an excuse for cheating Whether your drunk, not given enough attention cheating is inexcusible people just use the 'Oh I was drunk' line to try justify and sooth their guilty conscience, maybe its not true once a cheat but the line 'what goes around comes around' is most certainly true


+1

The rampant cheating that is going on is a sad indictment on our society. And although it is not seeen as acceptable, it is now accepted that it does happen, and that is a shame.

Reply 68

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by username239687
Gender doesn't determine whether someone will cheat or not. I know guys who have cheated on every partner and I know girls who have cheated on every partner.
The only thing that determines if somebody is going to cheat is their true colours. That is, what they think they'll be able to get away with without anybody finding out. Whether you're XX or XY, if you cheat, you're betraying somebody on the highest scale imaginable and you're utter scum.
It's naive and or ignorant to think gender has anything to do with it.

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Reply 69

I usually cheat on my Pakistani Muslim husband with my white English boss and I am a Pakistani Muslim woman and I got a baby boy with my ex white boyfriend too

Reply 70

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by ct2k7
I've been debating this with my sister for a few days now, but why do girls or women cheat? I'd especially like to hear from girls who have cheated on guys.
Is it some sort of maturity thing? I guess not because we see it at all levels.
Would you agree that there has been an increase in cheating on the female side in the past decade or two?
What makes you more likely to cheat?
I am aware that if someone is going to cheat then they are going to cheat, but I'm just wondering, to those who cheated, what would have stopped you?
Please don't bring men into this yet, that's another topic
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I would say boredom arising from the overwhelming exposure to the 'dream life' often portrayed on social media. Then later I have seen regret come in and the same women claim 'its the little things in life'. I guess some people are raised to understand what is truly valuable and others arent hence why they go out to 'explore'. I would argue that there is a current pandemic of cheating which I think is used as a kind of short term 'feel better' for serious underlying problems that people dont want to address as it requires actual work. thats my view anyway hope that helps

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