They don't understand

This thread is stupid... We could start a thread explaining that people who are serial killers aren't necessarily horrible.

This is all about someone having a guilty conscience about doing something that really, in terms of respect for other people, is despicable but this person hates the idea that they might be "judged" as a bad person, as a "slut" so wants to be convinced they're a good person.

Yes OP, people can do all kinds of things and still be convinced they're a good person. If your conscience is fine with what you've done or will do then that should be enough.

I do admit sometimes theres a good reason for people cheating on somebody.
But fact is if you trully loved your boyfriend you wouldn't of cheated on him no matter how much you wanted whatever was missing.
You sure your not just looking for a excuse to cheating so it don't seem so bad???

There are a lot of good reasons to dump someone; there isn't a single good reason to cheat on someone.

This thread is stupid... We could start a thread explaining that people who are serial killers aren't necessarily horrible.

This is all about someone having a guilty conscience about doing something that really, in terms of respect for other people, is despicable but this person hates the idea that they might be "judged" as a bad person, as a "slut" so wants to be convinced they're a good person.

Yes OP, people can do all kinds of things and still be convinced they're a good person. If your conscience is fine with what you've done or will do then that should be enough.

In all logic, cheating on someone is a horrible thing. You're showing no respect for the person you're cheating on and if you don't tell them, in addition to that, you're insulting their intelligence and using them. Why is this a horrible thing? Based on the way it makes someone feel when they're cheated on. You can do a million bad things and still tell yourself you're a good person. If your conscience can deal with it. Then again, many people have no conscience anyway. After all, what use is a conscience?