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Reply 1
It's up to you both, but I personally wouldn't touch it. The idea of switching partners for a night just suggests you're not happy with what you've got and want to try out other boys to see if they're any better. I actually really sympathise with your bf!
Reply 2
Anonymous
ok the title pretty much says it all. i really want to try it but my bf isnt quite so keen. im not going to push the issue but i was wondering what u guys thought. is it socially acceptable and would you try it?



Why dont you just teach your boyfriend to do that thing that you like?
that way he'll know how to satisfy you in future and you wont crave it from elsewhere.
Reply 3
No, bad idea socially, and morally.
Reply 4
Anonymous
ok the title pretty much says it all. i really want to try it but my bf isnt quite so keen. im not going to push the issue but i was wondering what u guys thought. is it socially acceptable and would you try it?


In countries like France or Germany, it's a very standard (not seedy) "activity". I read a survey saying that 10% of couples had engaged in this habit. Look up the "Cap d'Agde" in France. I think it's the self-proclaimed swingers capital of the world.

Just in the town where I used to study, there were hundreds of swinger's clubs, some of which were as well-known and advertised as the other nightclubs. You just have to come with a clean bill of health, come with a partner (otherwise you pay a ridiculous amount, unless you're a single female which almost never happens...). The standard in some clubs is to strip to your undies before heading out onto the dancefloor or to the bar.
Reply 5
dont get me wrong my bf is great in bed and i wouldnt change him for nething before someone suggests moving on. we try out different stuff but i just want to experiment a bit more. i have had a number of sexual experiences b4 i met my bf but i would like to expand on that without cheating. eg. ive never slept with a girl, i want to try things. doesnt anyone else ever feel the same?
Errr, no I don't. Personally I think going with someone other than your partner (even with their consent) is wrong... to think of my bf with someone else makes me feel sick.
Reply 7
Can't say I would like to do it myself.

I can't see why people would want to do it if they were happy with their partner. There are plenty of other things to do to spice up your sex life without sleeping with other people.

How could you stand the thought of your partner sleeping with another woman? I couldn't bare it.
Reply 8
Anonymous
ok the title pretty much says it all. i really want to try it but my bf isnt quite so keen. im not going to push the issue but i was wondering what u guys thought. is it socially acceptable and would you try it?


:eek:

you gotta be kidding...no sarcasm intended...
Swinging and wanting to bring another girl into the bedroom aren't necessarily the same thing though - wanting to try a threesome isn't that untoward (despite what people tell you lol) but swinging is a more regular arrangement than a one off to see if you like it.
Reply 10
Tarts_n_Vicars
Swinging and wanting to bring another girl into the bedroom aren't necessarily the same thing though - wanting to try a threesome isn't that untoward (despite what people tell you lol) but swinging is a more regular arrangement than a one off to see if you like it.


hmm...i recommend that if you're in a RELATIONSHIP, having a threesome by bringing in another girl is a BAD BAD idea, let alone swinging...

A relationship is meant to be a total connection of love and trust between two people... (not that that's the definition of relationship or anything, its just my views)

But if you're casually dating some girl and you decide to bring in another girl, then no probs... i've never had a threesome before, but love to have one ANY DAY:biggrin:
Reply 11
I wouldnt want to share my bf with anyone! If you're in a proper relationship why would you feel the need to sleep with other people, unless something isn't right?
Reply 12
No No and NO!

If you want to have fun just use rope like the rest of us.
Reply 13
Ummm, with the risk of sounding incredibly stupid, what is swinging? :redface: :confused:
NO i wouldn't do it, why invite another couple into a relationship, someone will always get hurt, trust me its destined for disaster, clearly your not happy with your b/f you need to sort it out with him.
Reply 15
Anonymous
dont get me wrong my bf is great in bed and i wouldnt change him for nething before someone suggests moving on. we try out different stuff but i just want to experiment a bit more. i have had a number of sexual experiences b4 i met my bf but i would like to expand on that without cheating. eg. ive never slept with a girl, i want to try things. doesnt anyone else ever feel the same?



Yep. Have to say i do. Love my bf, hes good in bed, but swinging appeals to me.
Reply 16
Lilly_May
Yep. Have to say i do. Love my bf, hes good in bed, but swinging appeals to me.

How could you stand it - letting him sleep with someone else?
sick
Reply 18
lynseyweth
How could you stand it - letting him sleep with someone else?



Ah, i never said he could do anything... :rolleyes:

I know that he LOVES me and not her. If he were to have sex then sex is sex and when we sleep together, we don't have sex, its SO cliche but it is making love, in my eyes.
Adhsur
Ummm, with the risk of sounding incredibly stupid, what is swinging? :redface: :confused:


Its where you get incredibly drunk at a party then hang off the chandeliers. :smile: