how many people have you kissed and are you ashamed?

i'm 20 and i've kissed 3 guys. im ashamed, and i wish it was less. i dont know why i feel that way. i think cos i want to marry a catholic virgin man, its kinda gross to tell him

how many people have you kissed and how do you feel anbout it

Reply 1

Fleece

15

I have no idea how many people i've kissed - i don't keep count funnily enough. I'm not ashamed - it's a kiss. It either means the world or nothing.

Reply 2

Hana_87

16

I've kissed quite a few, when i was younger. I don't feel embarrassed at all. Its nothing like sex, a bit of fun and life really is too short to fret about having a kiss.

Reply 3

anjurdsg

11

i've kissed an ugly girl *puke* when i was drunk one friday night.... and EVERYONE in school made fun of me the next week when i returned to school...

Reply 4

Barny

17

Haven't got a clue how many people I've kissed, its just a kiss for **** sake.

Reply 5

Helenia

20

13, I think.

I'm not ashamed of the number - it's just one of those things that happens sometimes and it's fun. They weren't all people I was hugely in love with - only the last one has that honour :wink:

But mostly at the time I was attracted to them, we were both either single and knew it didn't have to lead to anything, or were thinking that it might turn into a relationship.

I'm ashamed of some of the people because it was a mistake to kiss them, but not of the overall total, if you see what I mean.

Reply 6

bret

12

probably about 7 million. who cares?

Reply 7

shinytoy

OP

18

but if you have a bf and he asks you this, are you embarrassed/lie?

my problem is, i think i've met a catholic virgin who i'd like to marry but i dont think he has kissed a girl. i think my 3 seems gross.

also if you kiss alot of guys it looks like it doesnt mean anything and isnt special.

if you are going to be a guys first kiss what will you say when he says he hasnt kissed a girl?

Reply 8

phantom

2

shinytoy

i'm 20 and i've kissed 3 guys. im ashamed, and i wish it was less. i dont know why i feel that way. i think cos i want to marry a catholic virgin man, its kinda gross to tell him

how many people have you kissed and how do you feel anbout it

i dont understand how its gross to tell him. its kissing and yeah it can mean a lot with some people and nothing at all with others but how can it be hard to tell your future husband about it. if he really cares that much and cant get over it then its obviously his problem and he obviously doesnt care enough about you. you shouldnt be ashamed about it. you seem really into the marriage thing dont you?

Reply 9

minimo

15

Shiny, Catholics are allowed pre-marital pulls ya know! :p:

But, yes, it's nice to keep the number low so it's meaningful.

Reply 10

PaperMoon

You could just...not tell him. You don't have to share everything just because you're going out with/kissing the guy. You are allowed to keep some things to yourself.

Reply 11

minimo

15

shinytoy

but if you have a bf and he asks you this, are you embarrassed/lie?

my problem is, i think i've met a catholic virgin who i'd like to marry but i dont think he has kissed a girl. i think my 3 seems gross.

also if you kiss alot of guys it looks like it doesnt mean anything and isnt special.

if you are going to be a guys first kiss what will you say when he says he hasnt kissed a girl?

Please tell me it's not the exchange student guy... :s:

Reply 12

UtterNutter69

shinytoy

i'm 20 and i've kissed 3 guys. im ashamed, and i wish it was less. i dont know why i feel that way. i think cos i want to marry a catholic virgin man, its kinda gross to tell him

how many people have you kissed and how do you feel anbout it

I dont think you've got anything to be ashamed of, you havent done anything wrong. I'd only be ashamed about kissing a chick if I was already in a relationship with someone else, but I dont do that cos I'm a nice man, despite the number of warnings I get on here from moderators :p:

Reply 13

shinytoy

OP

18

yes i know. i just want to keep the number low, because kissing is as far as i go, so it needs to mean somthing to me. if i kiss loads of guys, it doesnt have much meaning btw me and my bf.

so just wondering what sorts of numbers everyone else has

Reply 14

minimo

15

You wanna hear?
Zero.
But that's coz I'm an ugly poo.

Reply 15

hugatree

11

I'm 19 and have kissed 4 guys (2 of them are/were bfs) and 2 girls.

Reply 16

anjurdsg

11

hugatree

I'm 19 and have kissed 4 guys (2 of them are/were bfs) and 2 girls.

no actually, i like lesbians... send some pics of urself over... :biggrin:

Reply 17

shinytoy

OP

18

minimo

You wanna hear?
Zero.
But that's coz I'm an ugly poo.

aww

im sure its not the reason! for marriage, it really matters if you are beautiful on the inside which i am sure you are.

i think you are so lucky in a way. i wish i had never kissed a guy as well, cos i can never get that innocence back. when you meet a special guy, which i am sure you will, he will think it so very special that you havent kissed a guy

EDIT: hows it going with the cute choirmaster? :eek:

Reply 18

hugatree

11

anjurdsg

no actually, i like lesbians... send some pics of urself over... :biggrin:

I'm not a lesbian. :wink:

Loads of girls just kiss their friends for fun.

Reply 19

phantom

2

shinytoy

yes i know. i just want to keep the number low, because kissing is as far as i go, so it needs to mean somthing to me. if i kiss loads of guys, it doesnt have much meaning btw me and my bf.

so just wondering what sorts of numbers everyone else has

you have to get into your head that 3 isnt a lot of people! you havent kissed loads of guys and just because someone has kissed lots of people doesnt mean that kissing has no meaning when you find someone that you like a lot

how many people have you kissed and are you ashamed?

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