Lack of contact

This isnt really a direct question, and sorry for the anonymous everyone.

Im seeing someone, or am trying to. This isnt a one sided thing - we both like each other, unless i have totally misread the situation which makes me a babbling fool.

OK SO:
Theyre doing full time college and part time work. Their course is all coursework = not much free time.
When theyre not at college theyre busy doing coursework.

Im working full time between 9 and 13 hour days.

They live a difficult distance away - £20 taxi fare to get there.

So i dont see nearly enough of them. Cant be helped right? Under normal circumstances i would sit back and relax, but this person goes to uni soon :frown:

Tell me something useful anyone :confused:

Reply 1

username47781

seeing someone? sounds like you are seeing 2 people the way you are saying they're.

Reply 2

hitmanuk2k

No it doesn't...

They're merely masking their gender.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Ok that did sound confusing - im tired. Excuse.

Im a guy, and there IS only one of her.

But we see each other very little atm an im concerned cos the clcok is ticking and we were defintely gettin somewhere :frown:

Reply 4

Morbo

If they're far away, give them a call. Arrange to meet in a neutral place. If there's not much time left, then there's not much time to be shy about these things. Be honest, and ask her out, even if it's just for lunch/dinner. You never know. If she likes you, she'll make time for you.

Nobody works 24/7, and when they're not working, they want to be doing interesting things, like meeting you.

In the words of Ben Stiller in Starsky and Hutch, "Do it. Do it. Do it."

Reply 5

Monkey_Maiden

Sounds like a difficlut situation
If shes going to uni you wanna see as much of her as possible I understand and I'm sure she's feeling bad and upset she is so busy.
Just try to see her as much as you can, theres not much else you can do dude. Make the time you do see each other really special, then at least it will make you both happy and remember easter and summer holidays soon, she won't be at college then and hopefully you might be able to get some free time off?
Try not to get down too much dude