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    You don't understand how autism works, I am in my late 20's and only ever in my life had 1 girlfriend who another friend set me up with and she ended up being clingy, possessive, terrible hygine and even then cheated on me.

    I won't be going back to a escort, I just wanted to make sure I was capable of sex, after the 1st time I thought I would try the 2nd time and hated it, so gave it another try and it was ok at best, 4th time was awful.

    If I had a good experience the 2nd time I wouldn't of tried a 3rd time.

    I may be more confident then when I was younger in some ways but also suffer depression so its even harder to meet women especially when most women I meet in clubs are around 18-21.

    Now I know I can do the deed I won't be back.

    Besides I thought it cheaper than meeting a girl in a club, buying drinks for both of us and taxi home and may not even get sex.
    So because of your autism and depression, the only way you could get a girl was if you purchased one? I understand that it's harder for you than it is most people but it's not impossible.
    Of course you are capable of sex. Everyone is capable of sex.
    You just said in your last point that you could've met a girl and you are implying that you could have talked to her but couldn't be asked because you may not have gotten sex. Why is it about sex? Sex only a temporary route to companionship. Maybe if you focused on meeting a genuinely nice girl as opposed to getting your penis wet, you'd find your life partner much sooner.
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    (Original post by moggis)
    As someone who has slept with approximately 1000 escorts and spend a lot of time getting to know some of them,and even been out socially with a few,I just wanted to point out that ,according to the women themselves,most of the men who pay for escorts could in fact get it elsewhere.

    Of course many of the men are in fact married.(Although where their wives are is a mystery)


    When I was paying for sex very often I found being able to phone up at any time of the night and know that there was an attractive young woman or two on her way to my house very exciting.

    That excitement on its own was worth £40.Maybe as much as £60 come to think of it.

    I've always been most interested in those who live on the edges of society rather than by privileged people.


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    Yeah right. If you could get it elsewhere, why are you paying for it? Married men who go to prostitutes do so because their marriage is breaking down and they're no longer happy at home, and are probably no longer intimate with their wife.
    You could have an attractive young woman on her way to your house without paying for one. I'm sure it would be much more exciting if it were a women who has genuine feelings for you and wants nothing more than to be with you.

    It's not living on the edge of society, it's being so lonely that you see no other fit say for social interaction with the opposite sex than to pay. People who go to prostitures are unhappy.
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    Yeah right. If you could get it elsewhere, why are you paying for it? Married men who go to prostitutes do so because their marriage is breaking down and they're no longer happy at home, and are probably no longer intimate with their wife.
    You could have an attractive young woman on her way to your house without paying for one. I'm sure it would be much more exciting if it were a women who has genuine feelings for you and wants nothing more than to be with you.

    It's not living on the edge of society, it's being so lonely that you see no other fit say for social interaction with the opposite sex than to pay. People who go to prostitures are unhappy.
    You're very one dimensional in your views on this and you are very much wrong.

    Do some reading on the subject, it's interesting


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    You're very one dimensional in your views on this and you are very much wrong.

    Do some reading on the subject, it's interesting


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    No thanks. I've read enough on it to know that you can't be a happy person if you're paying for sex from a stranger
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    (Original post by cherryred90s)
    No thanks. I've read enough on it to know that you can't be a happy person if you're paying for sex from a stranger
    You're right on that it was the stuff before that you were wrong about


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    (Original post by paul514)
    You're right on that it was the stuff before that you were wrong about


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    What stuff? Am I wrong in thinking that he's perfectly capable of finding a good woman that can offer much more than a prostitute?
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    (Original post by cherryred90s)
    What stuff? Am I wrong in thinking that he's perfectly capable of finding a good woman that can offer much more than a prostitute?
    If you could get it elsewhere, why are you paying for it?
    Married men who go to prostitutes do so because their marriage is breaking down

    The first statement implies that these men can't get it elsewhere. That's obviously incorrect.

    The second statement is also flawed many married men see these women and don't leave their wives. Also imagine the scenario of a husband being a carer to his ill wife they are the sort that visit these women


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    (Original post by cherryred90s)
    So because of your autism and depression, the only way you could get a girl was if you purchased one? I understand that it's harder for you than it is most people but it's not impossible.
    Of course you are capable of sex. Everyone is capable of sex.
    You just said in your last point that you could've met a girl and you are implying that you could have talked to her but couldn't be asked because you may not have gotten sex. Why is it about sex? Sex only a temporary route to companionship. Maybe if you focused on meeting a genuinely nice girl as opposed to getting your penis wet, you'd find your life partner much sooner.
    Thats a terrible attitude as you have stereotyped me, I actually don't like sex very much I prefer intimacy but due to not having sex in 7 YEARS I wanted a quick release without being worried about performance anxiety or seeing the girl again

    I wanted to seperate my sexual cravings which had built up over the years so if I meet a nice girl I won't care in the slighest for sex.

    Again I dislike sex! But need it now and again.

    I literally am the sort of guy who loves to kiss and cuddle more than anything.
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    (Original post by paul514)
    If you could get it elsewhere, why are you paying for it?
    Married men who go to prostitutes do so because their marriage is breaking down

    The first statement implies that these men can't get it elsewhere. That's obviously incorrect.

    The second statement is also flawed many married men see these women and don't leave their wives. Also imagine the scenario of a husband being a carer to his ill wife they are the sort that visit these women


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    I don't think our views are that different tbh.
    Married men go to prostitutes because they are unhappy with their situation at home with their wife. The unhappiness could stem from a lot of things, including the example you gave.
    I didn't say they leave they wife, because I guess it's somewhat comforting having someone to go home to even if you're not on great terms.
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    (Original post by cherryred90s)
    I don't think our views are that different tbh.
    Married men go to prostitutes because they are unhappy with their situation at home with their wife. The unhappiness could stem from a lot of things, including the example you gave.
    I didn't say they leave they wife, because I guess it's somewhat comforting having someone to go home to even if you're not on great terms.
    They aren't that different I just feel those points need to be clear like the autistic guy earlier it's a short term solution for people in these kinds of scenario


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    No it's not illegal, and nor is prostitution; people think prostitution is illegal in the UK, when in fact they're just getting confused with the US law.
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    It is completely legal to be an escort in the UK.
    There are no laws against escorts here, but there are laws for prostitution. When it comes to sex, the escort business is considered the same as prostitution. This is why both the prostitution industry and the escort industry have the same laws concerning sex.In your escort work, there is always sex involved in exchange for money, although this is never officially mentioned anywhere. If you are an escort, you want to steer clear of the law and have a legitimate career. This is a small guide that should help you keep all your activities legitimate.

    Escort Age Restrictions
    Whether it is for escorts or for prostitution, it is illegal to do any business concerning sex if you are less than 18 years of age. If the escort is aged less than 18 years, and if there is proof of sex, then it is possible for both parties to be booked under the law.

    Escort AdvertisingUnder the UK law
    it is illegal to advertise for your sex work in anyway. This includes billboards, brochures, flyers, bus benches, telephone poles, telephone booths or the internet. Now that doesn’t mean you cannot advertise your escort services. You can do so freely on the internet and at many places where they can be seen by your potential clients.There are a few things you should do however.Keep your ads clean. Mention your escort services, but nothing about sex. Firstly, the law won’t take kindly to it. Secondly, clients know that your services involve sex even if there is no mention of it.Keep it clear of all nudity. Again, this is illegal, especially in public places. You can have erotic pictures on your website, or wherever third party ads about your service appear. However, they don’t need to see every part of your body before they hire you. Moreover, escorts never use their pictures for advertising services. It only compromises their privacy.SolicitingEscorts don’t usually take to soliciting their services in public places. Therefore, there shouldn’t be any major problem with them. However, some individuals may call their professional prostitution as escort service and solicit clients. The law is strict against attempts to bring sexual service endorsements into the public places. Even if you are not mentioning sexual services, you may be booked by the police for doing so.When it comes to such borderline matters, the police are concerned with what serves the public best. The police are not too concerned with minor offences that can easily be disproved in court.Being paidAs mentioned before, being paid for sex is not illegal. However, profiting from somebody else’s sexual services is considered illegal, and you and your agency can be booked for the offence. By having sex with your client for money, you are not doing anything illegal. However, when you are an escort working for an agency, the place is managing your sex work, and thus profiting from it.The agency could be termed as a brothel and might be asked to shut down the business. There is a small risk even if you are an independent escort. For instance, if you always have a driver waiting outside for you while you are with your client, he is technically assisting you with sex work. Moreover, since you pay him, he is profiting from your sex work. This way, both the escort and the driver can be charged with criminal offence.If you want to avoid this situation, have a completely foolproof way of getting paid by your client. Firstly, let there be no proof that you took money from your client for sex work. This completely eliminates the sex angle, and there is no legal problem. One of the ways of doing this is to get the payment done through PayPal.It is a convenient online service for payments. Have a prepaid credit card and link this card to your PayPal account. This way you get paid before you meet your client, and at the same time it remains anonymous.If you want to do it the old way and want to be paid by cash, here is how things should go:The client puts cash inside the envelope and keeps it in the bathroomAs soon as you arrive, you ask to go to the bathroomYou pick up the money and put it inside your purse and go about your meeting with your clientThis is a safe method of payment of cash that escorts have worked out after many years of experience, and it is a foolproof system. It helps you avoid the English law altogether.

    DonationMany escorts call their payments donations instead of fees.
    Although there is no record of sexual activities that can be proven, donations are yet another layer of security for them. Under this process, escorts ask their clients to place their donations at an undisclosed place and pick them up discreetly.This way, if there is trouble and there is an account of proven sexual activity between the escort and the client, there is no exchange of money involved. No case can be made for an offence.
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