can 'normal' guys ever find a small chest attractive? Watch
Besides, most women who have big boobs either have had a boob job, or the have them because they're carrying a little extra fat. I'd rather have a girlfriend who looked in shape, even if her boobs were smaller.
Yes, I know another thread about boobs.
Me and my friend were talking earlier about 'niche' fetishes that guys have (after reading an article about guys who like obese women) - and she said something that really offended me "Yeah there's a fetish for everything, even like...flat chested women". I then started to wonder whether to find a small chest attractive, the guy would have to be some sort of deviant. I've read other things about only "paedos" liking small chests etc - which I find very hurtful.
So basically, is it possible for guys to like a small chest without having some sort of weird fetish?. I mean, I know there's porn websites dedicated to flat chested women..but this doesn't particularly make me feel much better as there are also websites dedicated to morbidly obese, hairy women and granny porn - surely small breasts isn't on a par with those fetishes?!
Different boob sizes/shapes suit different women. No denying that a busty girl is in general more attractive but at the same time I can think of dozens of 9/10 flat chested girls who's boobs suit them perfectly. Taylor Swift for example is unbelievably hot and her flat chestedness suits her tbh.
Definitely wouldnt call it a fetish.
You do, you choose the partner you want, just like you choose what you want to buy, instead of paying with money you pay your partner with your own virtues, for example I'm incredibly charming, thus I offer that to my partners in return they may offer me social status, companionship or physical satisfaction. Likely, a combination.
Getting into a relationship isn't some sort of logical purchase. Trying to turn relationships into logical purchases is really not going to turn out well for you in the future, believe me.
I'm bony and petite. My boobs are like 32B. If/ when I have kids after being married in years to come, I'd probably put on weight to probably a C though when chubby . Most people find me cute even though I can mostly look tottie especially if not in heels. I don't know why guys like me, don't have much boobs but do have an arse, my boobs would grow if I ate a lot more to put on weight. I've been working on it and it is hard to get chubby as a veggie, I'm model thin and look like a size 0 but every girl mate of mine loves that and compliment it which I think is insane
There are definitely guys who prefer small breasts, there is an even larger proportion who don't care much about size. I think a significant amount of guys would prefer "something to grab" over a completely flat chest.
The reason these threads keep getting made is simply because responses from guys such as "lots of guys prefer small ones x" sort of falls short when you see heads turning over hourglass-figures, articles about "real women" with photos of Sofia Vergara and Kelly Brook and women like Kate Upton and Emily Ratajkowski featuring in the hottest lists of Maxim and GQ. Round and sizeable breasts are seen as part of female sex appeal, on line with a nice bum, vivacious hair and long legs. Most women recognize this, and while anonymous internet responses stating otherwise may be give an immediate quick fix, your mood will drop again when you see the guy you have a crush on leaving the club with a double D.
- Total matters most. A nice body is a nice body. Nobody has a perfect everything - and a slim figure will usually compromise breast size somewhat. The toned, slender bodies of many Victoria's Secret models (Miranda Kerr, Candice Swanepoel) all have small breasts. You don't even have to look like these women to be hot - real women have the advantage over supermodels of being real and being here. However most girls could look better than they do. So get squatting, get those legs tones and tummy in shape. Work on your hair. See what assets you have and promote them.
- All men have different taste. Some men prefer the catwalk skinny women (I had a boyfriend whose exes were all size 0s), some prefer a nice ass, some prefer a larger hourglass. Most women do in fact have preferences too - in terms of height, features, style, ethnicity. I like a man with chest hair and nice shoulders. As long as women have preferences, guys who can afford to have preferences are allowed them too. I've observed some "shaming" of men who prefer women with large breasts, but they are in fact allowed to feel this way.
- The amount of men who will dump a woman they are otherwise attracted to for lack of boobage are neglectible.
So much that I can guarantee that if you generally struggle with attention from men, the problem lies elsewhere.
- A preference for small breasts is not a fetish. The definition of a fetish varies, but the traditional one is an obsession with something that is so strong that you cannot get aroused without it OR a sexual attraction to an object that is non-sexual. If you go by the first, there are probably men who are so obsessed with small breasts that they cannot get aroused by larger breasts. But you could say that about anything - a guy can be obsessed with blonde hair to the point where it is a "fetish", that does not mean women with blonde hair should feel bad.