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Girls just interested in sex?

Ok im not going to bother posting this anonymously because i dont really see the point so here goes:

Last night i went to a nightclub and got talking to a girl on my floor in halls who i fancied for a while and we were getting on really well and she was being quite suggestive etc. Anyway i went for it and we ended up kissing and all was good. We got a taxi back to the flat with this random guy and went up to her kitchen. She was again being suggestive about going further than a kiss but i didnt really want to, i really liked her and didnt want to just have sex for the sake of it. So when this becomes apparant she turns her attention to this random guy and i originally thought she was just trying to make me jealous but then they just got up and walked out.

Her other flatmate came into the kitchen and we were talking for about 20 mins and i said i was gonna go to bed. So as i walk down the corridor i hear the original girl having sex with this random guy she met like an hour ago. It really upset me and i cant stop thinking about it today. Is that all girls are interested in?! :frown:

Reply 1

Lib

10

BirchyGreen

Ok im not going to bother posting this anonymously because i dont really see the point so here goes:

Last night i went to a nightclub and got talking to a girl on my floor in halls who i fancied for a while and we were getting on really well and she was being quite suggestive etc. Anyway i went for it and we ended up kissing and all was good. We got a taxi back to the flat with this random guy and went up to her kitchen. She was again being suggestive about going further than a kiss but i didnt really want to, i really liked her and didnt want to just have sex for the sake of it. So when this becomes apparant she turns her attention to this random guy and i originally thought she was just trying to make me jealous but then they just got up and walked out.

Her other flatmate came into the kitchen and we were talking for about 20 mins and i said i was gonna go to bed. So as i walk down the corridor i hear the original girl having sex with this random guy she met like an hour ago. It really upset me and i cant stop thinking about it today. Is that all girls are interested in?! :frown:

It really just depends on the girl. Just don't judge us all based on her actions, and be thankful you found out what she was really like before you got into anything with her!

Reply 2

so_this_is_sam

3

No it is not, perhaps it was all she was interested in, but that isnt the same for all girls. Ok, so we do like sex now and again, but personally i prefer to get to know the guy first!! Im not saying i wld never have a one night stand, because i probably would, but different girls have different opinions. Its like me saying to you, alll guys just want sex and nothing else, which i hope, isnt true. i reckon its a good thing she went off with this random guy, it means you got to find out what shes really like and didnt do anything you didnt want to do. Respect for not sleeping with her...

Reply 3

Segat1

16

No. This is an example of how you cant make a stereotype based upon one example. You met someone who doesnt have the same ideals and mores are you. Instead of feeling bad, wait for a girl who wants what you want, and you'll be happy together :biggrin:

Reply 4

hitmanuk2k

This is such a silly thread. I mean you can't judge an entire gender based on one persons action.

Reply 5

Tyler Durden

17

BirchyGreen

Ok im not going to bother posting this anonymously because i dont really see the point so here goes:

Last night i went to a nightclub and got talking to a girl on my floor in halls who i fancied for a while and we were getting on really well and she was being quite suggestive etc. Anyway i went for it and we ended up kissing and all was good. We got a taxi back to the flat with this random guy and went up to her kitchen. She was again being suggestive about going further than a kiss but i didnt really want to, i really liked her and didnt want to just have sex for the sake of it. So when this becomes apparant she turns her attention to this random guy and i originally thought she was just trying to make me jealous but then they just got up and walked out.

Her other flatmate came into the kitchen and we were talking for about 20 mins and i said i was gonna go to bed. So as i walk down the corridor i hear the original girl having sex with this random guy she met like an hour ago. It really upset me and i cant stop thinking about it today. Is that all girls are interested in?! :frown:

I can fully understand why you vote BNP; you clearly don't mind making stupid generalisations and tarring huge groups of people with the same brush based on isolated instances. You're quite willing to assume that this is all girls are interested in because you met one girl who just wanted to get laid. Of course it's not all girls are interested in. :rolleyes:

Reply 6

pugnacious

BirchyGreen

Ok im not going to bother posting this anonymously because i dont really see the point so here goes:

Last night i went to a nightclub and got talking to a girl on my floor in halls who i fancied for a while and we were getting on really well and she was being quite suggestive etc. Anyway i went for it and we ended up kissing and all was good. We got a taxi back to the flat with this random guy and went up to her kitchen. She was again being suggestive about going further than a kiss but i didnt really want to, i really liked her and didnt want to just have sex for the sake of it. So when this becomes apparant she turns her attention to this random guy and i originally thought she was just trying to make me jealous but then they just got up and walked out.

Her other flatmate came into the kitchen and we were talking for about 20 mins and i said i was gonna go to bed. So as i walk down the corridor i hear the original girl having sex with this random guy she met like an hour ago. It really upset me and i cant stop thinking about it today. Is that all girls are interested in?! :frown:

Maybe she just wasnt feeling the whole neo nazi vibe, and only realised this when a black dude walked up to her kitchen...Did you show her your tatoos? Schoolboy error, you should never let them know your racist untill your actually going out with them...

On a more serious note, you are intelligent enough to know that the actions of one particular woman is hardly representative of the entire sex, or even the particular demographic of girls at university.

In fact I don't think the majority of uni girls are up for "one night stands", unless they are relatively butters or desparate, so don't worry you wont have to sleep with most on the first night.

In a nutshell:

Yes some girls like to get down to getting down, others do not really jump on the bandwagon.

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Reply 7

anjurdsg

11

BirchyGreen

Ok im not going to bother posting this anonymously because i dont really see the point so here goes:

Last night i went to a nightclub and got talking to a girl on my floor in halls who i fancied for a while and we were getting on really well and she was being quite suggestive etc. Anyway i went for it and we ended up kissing and all was good. We got a taxi back to the flat with this random guy and went up to her kitchen. She was again being suggestive about going further than a kiss but i didnt really want to, i really liked her and didnt want to just have sex for the sake of it. So when this becomes apparant she turns her attention to this random guy and i originally thought she was just trying to make me jealous but then they just got up and walked out.

Her other flatmate came into the kitchen and we were talking for about 20 mins and i said i was gonna go to bed. So as i walk down the corridor i hear the original girl having sex with this random guy she met like an hour ago. It really upset me and i cant stop thinking about it today. Is that all girls are interested in?! :frown:

why didnt u have sex with her? :mad:

you would have been the one banging her while the other guy walks by the room gettin jealous

Reply 8

Lib

10

anjurdsg

why didnt u have sex with her? :mad:

you would have been the one banging her while the other guy walks by the room gettin jealous

Some people like to get know people before they sleep with them. It's really not that unusual either!

Reply 9

shinytoy

18

Lib

It really just depends on the girl. Just don't judge us all based on her actions, and be thankful you found out what she was really like before you got into anything with her!

totally agreed on both points.

1) we are not all like that - go to your uni's christian union, or even the library to find girls NOT having sex

2) yes - a girl who does that sort of thing with a guy she has known for one hour is likely to do that ofen, and probably is at high STD risk

Reply 10

anjurdsg

11

i think you need to classify between "nice girls" and "whores"

...and yes, you can all give me plenty of bad reps for that...wouldnt affect me

Reply 11

Lib

10

anjurdsg

i think you need to classify between "nice girls" and "whores"

...and yes, you can all give me plenty of bad reps for that...wouldnt affect me

That's an easy one!

Nice girls = girls who are nice.

Whores = women who are paid by men for sexual 'services'.

Reply 12

username47781

20

I think if you go to a night club you are more likely to find a girl who just wants to get her leg over, obviously not all girls who go to nightclubs are like that, just saying your more likely to find a girl there who is just interested in sex, i mean how can you have a decent conversation in a noisy packed club anyway.

Reply 13

shinytoy

18

i agree with andjusg. you had a luky escape. i cant rep her, nor you birchy,as i need to wait till friday. (but i think birchy needs the rep more!)

i mean, if i posted this thread and a guy did this to a girl, everyone would be like, oh thats ok he's a guy. so i dont see why its so bad when a girl gets a bt horney. but yea i agree you cant make generalisations like that without expecting neg reps

Reply 14

anjurdsg

11

shinytoy

i agree with andjusg. you had a luky escape. i cant rep her, nor you birchy,as i need to wait till friday. (but i think birchy needs the rep more!)

i mean, if i posted this thread and a guy did this to a girl, everyone would be like, oh thats ok he's a guy. so i dont see why its so bad when a girl gets a bt horney. but yea i agree you cant make generalisations like that without expecting neg reps

so rep me (negative rep) when u hit friday... i jus feel like getting repped... it certainly boosts my ego up (not)... i wanna see what happens if you get about 50 negative reps... do u get banned or wat?

Reply 15

sr4470

15

Anyone else tired of double standards? Both genders can be as bad as each other, unfortunately casual sex seems to be endemic among young people...

Girls just interested in sex?

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