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Reply 1
Contrary to what some people have told me, they are not all gay...:rolleyes:
Each to their own...if he is comfortable with the way he is, then good for him. If YOU like him, then you shouldnt let his manner bother you. Think hard a minute. Are you afraid of what other people think, more than what you think?
Reply 3
Masculine all the way for me.
Reply 4
Camp guys can be straight too. Not necessarily batty men.
Reply 5
Anonymous
I met this guy who is lovely, really good looking etc etc, but his voice is quite high and he's quite effeminate. I think it's this which has made me see him as nothing more than a friend though he wants more.

What does everyone think about feminine guys?


I suppose feminine guys are how I would view more masculine women - no problem with socialising with them, but attraction would be more difficult. I don't act particularly camp, in fact not at all but I am effeminate in my nature (softer/more caring/converse more with girls, etc) - in what ways would girls/women tend to view this?
Reply 6
I think effeminate guys are very sweet. :love: No, seriously, like all girls I've had a few crushes - but those are silly. However, if I think about the three guys I have really really fancied during the last, what 5 years, every single one was very effeminate, and were lovely. :love: Sadly none were interested in moi, so maybe that says something...
Reply 7
minimo
I think effeminate guys are very sweet. :love: No, seriously, like all girls I've had a few crushes - but those are silly. However, if I think about the three guys I have really really fancied during the last, what 5 years, every single one was very effeminate, and were lovely. :love: Sadly none were interested in moi, so maybe that says something...


Where are the women like you hiding!? :p:
Reply 8
At the end of the rainbow. :p: Nah, I've just never found ruggedly handsome men attractive.
Reply 9
minimo
I think effeminate guys are very sweet. :love: No, seriously, like all girls I've had a few crushes - but those are silly. However, if I think about the three guys I have really really fancied during the last, what 5 years, every single one was very effeminate, and were lovely. :love: Sadly none were interested in moi, so maybe that says something...


Awww, how sweet :smile: ...I think they're cool too :wink:
Reply 10
You like effeminate men? *is concerned*! :biggrin:
Reply 11
minimo
You like effeminate men? *is concerned*! :biggrin:


Nothing wrong with them :confused: well, except if they have the weird voice, that doesnt seem right...
Reply 12
just....no.

how many guys like butch girls?!

that's not to say i couldn't fall for an effeminate guy (though it does seem a bit far fetched..) just that in general the stereotypical connotations of a feminine guy are not those which particularly attract me.

but hey, i'm sure it's not their loss and girly guys wouldn't go for me anyway :smile:
Reply 13
It's always good to be a little bit camp.. just a little.
Reply 14
sr4470
Nothing wrong with them :confused: well, except if they have the weird voice, that doesnt seem right...

Never mind, was kidding. :smile:
Reply 15
theres a guy i know hus girly and is the most popular in our school :confused: cuz everyone says hes sweet n carying and..nice :smile:
and the girls go awwwwwwwwwww.. hes sho shweeet..
that jus pisses me off :mad:
not that i dont like him or im against such ppal .. its jus that y cant girls like the muscly guys? specially here..
Reply 16
usman_s
theres a guy i know hus girly and is the most popular in our school :confused: cuz everyone says hes sweet n carying and..nice :smile:
and the girls go awwwwwwwwwww.. hes sho shweeet..
that jus pisses me off :mad:
not that i dont like him or im against such ppal .. its jus that y cant girls like the muscly guys? specially here..


It's the opposite here - the effeminate guys are ignored, and the girls all swoon over the dominant and muscular guys... :angry:
Reply 17
usman_s
not that i dont like him or im against such people .. its jus that why cant girls like the muscly guys? specially here..


Dont overdo the whole macho thing then :wink:
minimo
I think effeminate guys are very sweet. :love: No, seriously, like all girls I've had a few crushes - but those are silly. However, if I think about the three guys I have really really fancied during the last, what 5 years, every single one was very effeminate, and were lovely. :love: Sadly none were interested in moi, so maybe that says something...


Hehe I totally agree with you! I prefer slightly effeminate guys to totally butch guys...personal preference I guess :p:
I hate macho men who think they have to walk on the outside of the pavement 'to protect their girlfriends,' and stare out any guy who looks at her! Big muscles = turn off for me, long hair = turn on!

My boyfriend is a leeeetle effeminate - he has dreads (washed!) down to his shoulders, which sometimes he ties in bunches (yum!), and prefers to talk about feelings, music and our relationship more than sport! Which is lucky for me coz I fail to see the attraction of football.