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MickyJ101

5

What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he's gay? :confused:

Reply 1

Jelkin

17

Break up...?

It kind of depends on the circumstances - is he having a really difficult time coming to terms with it himself? Is it something he's only just realised? It's perfectly justified for you to be angry with him, but remember that he might be going through a lot himself. I hope you have someone close to confide in... :redface:

Reply 2

Evil Phoenix

2

1) You believe him and lose your self esteem for the following 5-10 years
2) You think it's an excuse to dump you (verifiable: if you see him making out with a bunch of chicks... maybe he was lying)
3) You have a laugh

Reply 3

Evil Phoenix

2

oh I forgot,
4) You tell him "yes, honey.. I could have guessed by how you behave in bed"
5) You tell him you really are a lesbian

Reply 4

Profesh

20

MickyJ101

What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he's gay? :confused:

Save face and hop on the (frilly, iridescent) bandwagon.

Reply 5

MickyJ101

OP

5

Oh, its over alright. He tells me he still wants to be friends, that he cant deny who he is, and he finally wants to show the world, and be proud of himself. He says he'd been dating me just for appearences, he has a boyfriend.......Shocked much!

Reply 6

Evil Phoenix

2

MickyJ101

Oh, its over alright. He tells me he still wants to be friends, that he cant deny who he is, and he finally wants to show the world, and be proud of himself. He says he'd been dating me just for appearences, he has a boyfriend.......Shocked much!

ok instructions will follow in steps

1) bitchslap
2) scratch
3) stomp foot with 6 inch heel
4) tell his very religious grandparents
5) repeat steps 1,2 and 3 until anger fades OR until subject stops breathing

Reply 7

MayRose

This happened to me when I was in school....it sucked. You have my utmost sympathies. Just treat it like any other breakup and try to move on ASAP- things will get better. And maybe don't try to be friends right away...that rarely works.

Reply 8

MickyJ101

OP

5

lettherainfalldown

ok instructions will follow in steps

1) bitchslap
2) scratch
3) stomp foot with 6 inch heel
4) tell his very religious grandparents
5) repeat steps 1,2 and 3 until anger fades OR until subject stops breathing

LOL. Thanx, you'vw quite cheered me up a bit. This will be SOOO embarassing back at school! We were like the PERFECT couple. how depressing

Reply 9

Evil Phoenix

2

MayRose

This happened to me when I was in school....it sucked. You have my utmost sympathies. Just treat it like any other breakup and try to move on ASAP- things will get better. And maybe don't try to be friends right away...that rarely works.

be friends? the **** lied to her, cheated on her, played with her feelings and threw her away after she served her purpose... I believe that she'd prefer sterilization at this point rather than friendship with the guy

Reply 10

Evil Phoenix

2

MickyJ101

LOL. Thanx, you'vw quite cheered me up a bit. This will be SOOO embarassing back at school! We were like the PERFECT couple. how depressing

psh, embarassing for him, you'll be fine, your friends will support you and bury his sorry ass :eviltongu

Reply 11

sour stone

Dump him is one thing... but...
Wow... how the hell did that happen? He went gay...
I find that hard to imagine.
I feel so sorry for you.
If a girl did it to me, I'd seek revenge... and eventually calm down and find someone else...
But I guess it's different the other way round...

I suppose the only thing I can suggest, is not to let it eat you up. Don't feel depressed because of it, no matter how nice he was...

Or is it just a phase do you think...

I'm quite perplexed by this. wow.

Reply 12

Evil Phoenix

2

oh just had an idea:

1) find out who his boyfriend is
2) "casually" meet him at a pub
3) get him drunk
4) have a night of ranchy sex with him
5) film the whole thing
6) send him the tape

:eviltongu in his face!

Reply 13

Jelkin

17

He has a boyfriend?!?!?! Okay, so that's TOTALLY different. Kick his ass.

Reply 14

Evil Phoenix

2

just what I thought :motz:

grrrr give us his address :security:

Reply 15

MayRose

lettherainfalldown

be friends? the **** lied to her, cheated on her, played with her feelings and threw her away after she served her purpose... I believe that she'd prefer sterilization at this point rather than friendship with the guy

I was going off of something in her post that said he wanted to be friends...I didn't know if she still wanted to be or not. I agree with you though, I think he's a complete jerk and doesn't deserve her friendship at all :wink:

Reply 16

MickyJ101

OP

5

I don't think i'll do much. Hopefully his reputation will be in shreds over the next couple of days. But gays are gernerally more accepting in society nowadays, i dont want to do anything rash.......yes i do. Uhhh! im soooo mad i guess, this happened all TOO fast!

Reply 17

Evil Phoenix

2

MickyJ101

I don't think i'll do much. Hopefully his reputation will be in shreds over the next couple of days. But gays are gernerally more accepting in society nowadays, i dont want to do anything rash.......yes i do. Uhhh! im soooo mad i guess, this happened all TOO fast!