Really two faced girl getting to me

Hello

I should probably apologise in advance for what i know is going to be a huge rant, having jst heard more stuff that this horrible girl has said about me, but lets start at the beginning. i really need some opinions on how to deal with this cause i jst dont know what to do about this girl! please, please just read through and let me know what u think, i feel awful about this.

I have a "friend", A, and she is always bitching about me to all out other friends. I know this cause I have a good friend C who tells me about what A says, infact we joke about it cause the stuff she says isnt *really* mean but jst bitchy and two faced! and she is always nice to my face, but horrible about me behind my back. My bf D and I have been together almost 7 months and me and him seem to be the main thing she bitches about but having heard the most recent thing iv just had enough and just want to have it out with her!

most of the things she says are just off hand bitchy stuff thats jst not worth writing down, but the thing i jst heard today is so bad.

my best friend E who im not actualy so close to any more is with a guy G, but there is this other guy J who is obsessed with her and she kinda likes him too. she doesnt know what to do. the thing is that at the start of our first year of college J and i were together for 2 months (we are now at the end of our second year). the thing is that E didnt tell me about her and J for ages, i infact found out from some other people and then told her i knew and she was relieved i knew and just didnt want to hurt me by telling me (this is all part of the story). so then, i decided to tell her some things that happened with me and J, not to put her off cause infact i would be totaly fine if she and J got together, they are quite well suited and also iv moved on from there, and have D, so there no problem.

what i told her was that when he left me he did so with no explanation what so ever, one day things were fine and then after we had been on the phone chatting for a bit he txtd me after we hung up saying "do you think we shouold break up" and it went from there really. but he never said why and as at the time i had really low esteem etc i didnt think it was my right to ask why. i also told her that when we were together he hit me, and also that he is some kind of sex maniac, and was always doing things to me that i didnt want to, even if i tried to stop him he would just carry on until i thought it would be easier just to let him than keep trying to push him away. so i told her this but specified that it wasnt to tell her not to be with him, but just so she knows, cause i wouldnt want the same thing to happen to her.

anyway, back to the main story, i heard that E told A what i said about J, and A said to C "oh that is so the last straw with S [me], she has been so bitchy about J" and C said, "if you dont like her why dont you just tell her" and A replied "i dont want to cause an argument, im just going to keep using her for lifts [in my car] until uni and then never speak to her again".

WHAT A BITCH if it was bitching about me i can take it, but it hurts more that its about D and so so much more that she thinks i was just "bitching" about J, what with all the horribleness he put me through. and then she is just using me for my car.

what can i do. i have to say something to her else this is just going to keep on upsetting me over easter holidays. but waht and how and infact am i even in the right here?

Reply 1

The Crow

haha i was in exactly the same situation. ever since i came out she got worse so i ended up telling her to grow up til she has dont bother me. i kinda got lost serveral times but i think your in the right .... so? i dunno. if its gonna upset you confront them now n sort your way first?

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

it would be easier if you used their proper names instead of the first letter of their names... A said that B is gay to C, whilst D looked at E and F wasn't happy about this and told G, H and I...