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Is this girl into me?

Ok, theres this girl at my college whos been going out with this guy in the year above for about four months now. the thing is, whenever i talk to her she is constantly flirting with me, and i always seem to catch her staring at me and she gives me these little flirtatious smiles. I dont know what to think. If she wasnt going out with anyone I'd be trying to get in there straight away, but the fact that she is makes me think whether or not im readin these signs right, so im not to sure how to act towards her. U got any ideas?
Reply 1
Maybe try to up the ante in a way that won't be too risky. If she's being flirtatious with you, do the same back to her (just not in front of her boyfriend). If she responds the way you'd want her to, the odds are you have more than a small chance of being right - she's into you. If nothing changes, maybe she's just generally a really friendly person, but at least you can move on.
Reply 2
she is really freindly, and a very nice person. Shes different with me though, than she is with my other freinds.
no, sorry but shes playing you. i know a girl like this and she flirts with laods of guys and shes really loud and bubbly and has no desire to cheat on her 2 yr relationship
chazzinio
Ok, theres this girl at my college whos been going out with this guy in the year above for about four months now. the thing is, whenever i talk to her she is constantly flirting with me, and i always seem to catch her staring at me and she gives me these little flirtatious smiles. I dont know what to think. If she wasnt going out with anyone I'd be trying to get in there straight away, but the fact that she is makes me think whether or not im readin these signs right, so im not to sure how to act towards her. U got any ideas?


no, you are like her gay mate. sorry........
Reply 5
ok. so basically, you are saying that if she went really quiet and weird that would mean she fancied me?
Reply 6
No.. theyre saying unless she sticks her tougue down your throat/declares her undying love for you, its hard to tell :p:
Reply 7
sarforaz
No.. theyre saying unless she sticks her tougue down your throat/declares her undying love for you, its hard to tell :p:


:rolleyes:
Reply 8
lol.. seriously though its hard to tell if a flirty girl is into you.
recently this one girl was alll over me.. like always trying to sit on my lap, tugging at my shirt/tie, trying to touch me where she shouldnt ¬_¬
etc etc, asked her about it, and she said she doesnt like me in that way :rolleyes:
so in conclusion, some girls are just attention whores :p:
^ True that