I feel like a joke.

Im at sixth form, and basically i was new this year and had to make all new friends which was hard. I get on well with the pop girls, and other groups but hardly any guys. Im also bisexual which is difficult, anyways things were goign well until feb, i had told my closest girl friends i fancied this boy in our yr (one of the pop ones). Anyway one of my friends was a bitch and told him, he went mad and made almost everyone guy in my yr ignore me. He also shuts abbuse at me when he drives past in his car (babyblue ka) lol but i do give it back. Anyways i also sing and act liek a fool to make people like me, this gets around bluetooth and now the guys think im even more of a joke. I feel like a joke too now, if this guy is soo hedro why has he got sso worked up bout it. Really annoys me, anyway only 4 weeks left after easter hols and im goign to college next year. I need advice on how to get on with people while not acting like a fool to get people to like me.
:smile:

Thanks.

Reply 1

Sam Beckett

Are you sure you're not at Primary School? Take your time...it's a tough one.

Reply 2

thefish_uk

Singing and acting like a prat gets attention but makes people think you're weird - been there, done that. Not really a good idea.

Helps to just be yourself, find some people you can trust... maybe someone else who's bi or gay and can understand? I'm not really sure...

Reply 3

DontBuyTheSun

Your hanging out with the wrong people im afraid.
You confinded in some in secrecy (im guessing) and they went and told the one person you'd probably least want to know. Find some new friends, that share your interests, that you actually get along with and who understand you.
Dont act like a fool to please people, if they dont like you who for you are then they aint gona be very good friends.

Reply 4

phantom

its like in mean girls! except a bit different. find new friends and be yourself dont act like a twit because people will not like you for it sure they may laugh but at you not with you.

Reply 5

Krazi Dreamer

Ditto i agree with phantom. If that girl really was your friend then she wouldnt have betrayed your confidence like that. You need to definitely look to make some new friends who can trust, this may be hard at first but it gets easier. Oh and way 2 go on shouting abuse back, if they're the kind of popular ppl i know then they will soon pick on some1 else.

Hope that helps, lemme know what happens!

Reply 6

dan1982

No offence but i bet you sound like you write. And from what i read you need to relax, you are being a bit weird.
Also your friend has stitched you up, maybe you should watch your mouth.
Why do you feel you need attention?? Are you seeking it for a reason??

also the bloke in question is clearly curious about his own sexuality, i mean a blue ka :smile:

Reply 7

lskdgjsj

To be perfectly honest, there's not much of this year left, and you're hardly going to change everyone's mind in that time. Just get on with it, keep a low profile if necessary, and perhaps learn to be a little more circumspect in future.

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