Should i sleep with my ex?

My ex girlfriend has invited me to have sex with her, no strings attached, four hours of bad, dirty sex but for some reason i turned her down. I thought it was a bit of a step backwards to sleep with an ex, but then she sent me a picture of herself in lingerie saying that she was gutted i didnt come round, i now really wish i did. the thing is that the option is still open, should i do it, or should i just make more of an effort to move on? Cheers to any responses. Max :confused:

Reply 1

Cloud_Strife

12

Depends, do you still like her? If you do then dont do it, you'll just get attached. If your both friends then fair enough its a friendly thing :smile:

. But maybe shes sleeping with other people, and your just on her list.

Reply 2

Purple

18

Move on, she's your ex for a reason, whatever that reason maybe. You will both end up getting hurt in the long run.

Reply 3

Fluffy

15

kirstinx

Move on, she's your ex for a reason, whatever that reason maybe. You will both end up getting hurt in the long run.

Have you moved on/got a new bird. If so, son't go there. If not, bearing in mind that your ex is probably planning some bunny boiling way of getting you back (there is no such thing as no-strings shagging between ex's - even if most of us do go there under that pretence :smile:

), then go for it. I mean, who turns down a good seeing to?

Reply 4

warranty-ideal

12

Do it. Men can seperate sex and emotions quite easily. If she can't thats her problem.. you're not together.

Reply 5

Yeah

OP

fragreaper youre a legend. i dont care if she still likes me, i know she does, i just want to get laid as its been like 5 months. ive been on dates with 2 girls since, but its all just simmered to nothing, so i do need to get some lol. just with her, im not sure.

don't do it

Yeah

fragreaper youre a legend. i dont care if she still likes me, i know she does, i just want to get laid as its been like 5 months. ive been on dates with 2 girls since, but its all just simmered to nothing, so i do need to get some lol. just with her, im not sure.

Don't do it!

It's immoral and sex without emotion is meaningless.

If it does have emotion that is even worse becasue you are supposed to be getting over each other and moving on!