should I play it cool?

To cut a long story short...

A while ago I told this girl I liked her, because I did and I thought she liked me too, but she kinda fobbed me off (the classic "I don't want a relationship" line). No big deal, it took a little while to get over it but because I havn't seen her for a few days or so due to holidays so it's been a bit easier. We left on good terms.

Anyway, she sent me a random text, like a "do you miss me" kinda thing. I decided to ignore it, out of spite more than anything (she's ignored my texts before), but I've since felt that maybe I still kinda like her.

My question: what is she playing at? does she like me or is she just bored? And should I text back or not :rolleyes:

? Thanks.

Reply 1

Adhsur

15

Sounds like she just wants the attention. Best of both worlds so to speak.

Reply 2

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Adhsur

Sounds like she just wants the attention. Best of both worlds so to speak.

hmm, probably. So I should just ignore it then right? give her a taste of her own medicine hehehe.

Reply 3

DontBuyTheSun

12

She wants you now she cant get you. You did the right thing to ignore her. She probably wanted a ego boost.

Reply 4

Tyler Durden

17

Ignore her. Do you still want to get with her? If so she might come running by the sound of things.

Reply 5

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englishstudent

Ignore her. Do you still want to get with her? If so she might come running by the sound of things.

Hmm, possibly. But I don't like the idea of being played for a fool again!

Reply 6

DredgeReformist

2

Adhsur

Sounds like she just wants the attention. Best of both worlds so to speak.

Yup.

Like most girls.

Reply 7

DontBuyTheSun

12

Anonymous

Hmm, possibly. But I don't like the idea of being played for a fool again!

I wouldnt do it if i were you. She obviously feels like youll come running whenever she texts.

Reply 8

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calderstonesLFC

I wouldnt do it if i were you. She obviously feels like youll come running whenever she texts.

yeh sounds good. I may send one back saying "no" lol

Reply 9

Mark S

17

probably want to see your reaction when she ignores your texts. Loads of girls do it (more than guys anyway) because they want to see if you send them text after text going "why ignore me i really like you ;[" etc.

Reply 10

serious narb

11

Markus Angelsdaughter

because they want to see if you send them text after text going "why ignore me i really like you ;[" etc.

do people actually do that?

Reply 11

rico dan man

12

she might like you but find the commitment thing long

Reply 12

frappuccino

6

Don't text her back.

Reply 13

SeanC

1

Basically I'd say that all the time your unavailable she's going to want you.. as soon as you make yourself available she'll go back to how she was before and you'll get screwed over. TBH she doesnt sound like someone you'd want to be with anyway. Good luck though whatever you do.

Reply 14

DontBuyTheSun

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Anonymous

yeh sounds good. I may send one back saying "no" lol

How did it go lad?

Reply 15

BIGASS6eggs

she is flattered that you like her and wants the attention and ego-boost.

ignore her. if she was so interested in you she wud have sent u a text saying something along the lines of how much she misses u, or asking to meet up.

should I play it cool?

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