online person ahem

ok so i know someone online, known him a few months.. been sending pics of each other on our phones(u know what kinda pics lol)
and now we wanna meet so we can do it! its my first time though.. but im totally up for it just want other people's oppinions! oh and im not telling my friends/family they all think im a 'good girl' by the way I'm 19 so not underrage!

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Reply 1

SciFi25

Just to make sure he/she is alright, PLEASE meet them first in a well lit public place. Also make sure you buy your own drinks, don't leave them with him/her.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

Well.. it's your choice but I don't think its really safe meeting someone online.. You might also regret it afterwards.. because you don't love this guy or anything, and then you'll just end up feeling used. Still, you're old enough and I think you should be wise enough to make "sensible" decisions. Instead of meeting him why don't you just go to a club or something? Many guys are up for it there! LoL

Reply 3

Danny the Geezer

An e-meet? Just don't do `em.

Reply 4

ESBay

Hmmm.... online.... hmmmm.... for the first time.....danger....

Reply 5

UtterNutter69

You should at least arrange to go for a drink with him first, he may not be entirely what you thought and you may find he's a bit of a w**ker. then meet up a second time on another day if you still want to get freaky with him. Also take a friend when you meet him for the first time.. preferably someone who is ex-SAS.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

well yeah i know him heh ive seen pics :wink:

and i know this is what i wanna do

should i meet him in a club first then have him come round another day if we hit it off in person?

Reply 7

SciFi25

Just meet in a pub during the day or early evening for the first time. Don't do anything on the first time.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

oh and by the way he'll have to come round mine when my flatmates are out so they dont know what im up to!

Reply 9

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Anonymous

well yeah i know him heh ive seen pics :wink:

and i know this is what i wanna do

should i meet him in a club first then have him come round another day if we hit it off in person?

Not neccessarily a club but maybe in a cafe or something then arrange to go to a club with him if you think theres a spark there - but seriously don't give up hope on it it could work out for the best :smile:

Reply 10

SciFi25

Anonymous

oh and by the way he'll have to come round mine when my flatmates are out so they dont know what im up to!

Round yours??? Thats a no!!! Get a hotel room if you really have to!! Letting him know where you live could be a majorly bad decision.

Reply 11

pumpkin7

oh gosh.. don't go meet him and not tell anyone where you are. i'm sure you have at least one friend who you could tell, so at least they knew where you were.
it also sounds like you just want him for a bit of 'fun'.. and just by seeing pictures of a person doesn't mean you know them. for all you know, that could be someone elses pictures they are sending you.
you really need to be careful if you are going to go through with this. it isn't the best idea, and you really should go with someone or at least tell someone where you are going. also, are you sure it's a good idea to be having sex with this guy? he may not be 100% truthful about his sexual past and may be riddles with STDs and other things.. this is real risky business..

(btw, i went with my boyfriend last year to london to meet up with some people who he met online. they were all really nice.. i just don't think it's a good idea to be meeting up someone just for sex.. which is what you make it sound like it is... also, there were about 8 of us in all.. just the two of you, is a bad idea.. he may try things.. i really wouldn't do this.)

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

ok very good point! thanks :smile:

Reply 13

FireDeuce

Ok, you have lust for this guy, NOTHING else and he sounds like hes using you a bit.
Dont go and meet him thinking that you want to shag him, itll end in tears.

Reply 14

pumpkin7

Anonymous

oh and by the way he'll have to come round mine when my flatmates are out so they dont know what im up to!

oh dear god. don't take him round yours.. why do you have to be so secretive about this? it's not a good idea that just you and a bunch of strangers on here know where you are going to be.. well.. we won't even know where you are going to be. if you are going to do this - TELL SOMEONE YOU TRUST.

Reply 15

pumpkin7

Anonymous

ok very good point! thanks :smile:

i hope you weren't referring to the 'it was great when we met up with strangers bit'.. that was a completely different circumstance.

Reply 16

hiky

What a plonka, don't do it.

Reply 17

Yeah

Anonymous

oh and by the way he'll have to come round mine when my flatmates are out so they dont know what im up to!

Does it count as rape if a person is this stupid??

Talk about idiocy... ever thought about why you're not telling anyone youre doing this??

Reply 18

pumpkin7

Yeah

Does it count as rape if a person is this stupid??

Talk about idiocy... ever thought about why you're not telling anyone youre doing this??

lol..

aww..

lol..

i think she knows what she is doing is stupid, and that is why she doesn't want to tell anyone.. which is even more stupid than what she is planning... meh.

what are we supposed to do though? we are but petty forumers whose opinions mean squat.

Reply 19

Yeah

ok well heres my opinion: If you don't want to be raped, don't meet this creepy bastard, try getting laid normally. If you do want to get raped, which kind of negates the non consensual side of rape, then yeah, go for it, i'll see you on news.bbc.co.uk