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Does he like me?

Hi,
I'm in yr 12 and I like this lad in yr 13; it is so hard to talk to him due to the fact that were not in the same classes...however he takes similar subjects to me like Physic and Maths. I see him often in the 6th form area, he's always with his friends and it's really hard to talk to him since he's shy and always surrounded with friends. :frown:

Though on Tuesday, my friends made a surprise birthday party for me in the 6th form room, they even went up to this lad I like and asked him if they could take a photo of him, he said yes but had a confused look on his face.

Then next at lunchtime when my little party started, my friend went up to him when he was in his group of friends and asked him that it was my birthday and that I would be happy if he could come and join. My friend also said that he was encouraged by his friends..

He came over, and asked who's birthday it was, but I was looking down I was soo shy and didn't say hi, I just said 'it's mine' looking up to him for 2 seconds and then looked back down...And I heard him saying happy birthday...But as I looked back up, he was back with his friends. Well he didn't really know any of us properly so I guess he must have felt embaressed especially when his friend were pointing at him and laughing about it...

And now he knows that I like him, I find it hard to talk to him and I havn't spoken to him after; I feel guilty that I didn't talk to him and didn't thank him for coming to the little party in the 6th form room. Does anyone know how I should start a conversation with him? :p:

Any advices would be appreciated

Thanks loads

Reply 1

i wouldnt get my hopes up, on what you just told us.

Reply 2

Yeah, sorry, but sounds like he was just really embarassed... you could give it a go though, you've got nothing to lose

Reply 3

Erm. Well not in a nasty way neither of you were giving out signals you were both embarased, to give any.
But who knows :smile:

Reply 4

hmmm well it might work.... if you're BOTH shy then... why dont u ask for his email address (if not phone number) and then you two can email each other back and forth, and then one day you could ask him to take a walk with you in the park? I dunno...

Come on, you really cant be THAT shy not to do at least that....

Reply 5

anjurdsg
hmmm well it might work.... if you're BOTH shy then... why dont u ask for his email address (if not phone number) and then you two can email each other back and forth, and then one day you could ask him to take a walk with you in the park? I dunno...

Come on, you really cant be THAT shy not to do at least that....


Oh soz everyone, my friend writtened that using my user because I was showing her thestudentroom and so she wanted some advice on that situation.

She is very shy to talk to him, but I'm going to help her start the conversation by talking to him and hopefully get her to join.

Thanx for the advice, i shall tell her next time I see her.

Reply 6

Sezkin
Oh soz everyone, my friend writtened that using my user because I was showing her thestudentroom and so she wanted some advice on that situation.

She is very shy to talk to him, but I'm going to help her start the conversation by talking to him and hopefully get her to join.

Thanx for the advice, i shall tell her next time I see her.


yeah right...lol....your friend...

Reply 7

anjurdsg
yeah right...lol....your friend...



Er.. It's true :rolleyes:

Reply 8

well advice for your friend: Seems like the guys just embarrased BUT he may be the shy type... depends how he acts infront of other girls.

Reply 9

Sezkin
Er.. It's true :rolleyes:


it is true!

em i think that he sensed that ur friend was embarased and he was embarased too cos well mayb it sounds like he doesnt fancy her back also he would be feeling arkward cos he doesnt know ur friend and he was invited to her bday party thinking 'WHAT the hell am i doing here'...

lol

Reply 10

Sezkin
Oh soz everyone, my friend writtened that


forget about whether it's her friend or not...writtened???

Reply 11

Ideally you want to get him in a situation where he'd be more relaxed, a party would be good...I'm not sure how you'd get him there in the first place though.

Reply 12

hi everyone, i am the person who my friend is talking about and i am the one who has got this problem. anyway everything is over. he came to my birthday party but he was forced to come by my and his friends. it's a long story. basically he doesn't like me and now that he has found out i like him, he completely avoids me. i'm really heart broken now.

Reply 13

Sorry to hear that.