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Asking a girl out for coffee

If you want to ask a girl out for coffee but don't want to do it so 'obviously' (scare of rejection), is there a good way to 'suggest this' without directly asking? :confused:

Reply 1

Lillybut

1

just ask. end of. lol :p:

Reply 2

Spiral Architect

1

If she says yes make sure you take some aphrodisiac along to slip in her coffee.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

* meant to say 'scared' instead of 'scare', just incase Profesh sees this post. :smile:

Reply 4

paranoid_android

8

Spiral Architect

If she says yes make sure you take some aphrodisiac along to slip in her coffee.

urgh are you suggesting date rape, you make me sick spiral.

Reply 5

charlotte m

just ask her! Coffee is a good call because it's not like, do you want to go to the cinema which kind of implies i want to make out with you usually. It's cool coz you can chat and also it doesn't seem like some major date - like dinner, so shouldn't be too frightening. And if you get scared, you say to her oh it's because I'd like to get to know you better and so it seems a friendly thing. I'm sure she'll be flattered, so just go for it, otherwise you'll neevr know what she thinks! Good luck X X X

Reply 6

so_this_is_sam

3

i like nescafe, it tastes good.
oh you like coffee too?
Yes
Thats good
Umm...
starbucks is good for coffee
yes
ever been?
yes
i havent for a while, no one else really likes coffee
oh

lol sorry just kidding. the point of this it be direct, you just ask her. dont try and be subtle. be confident.

Reply 7

Talon

18

Havent had coffee in ages...Lol..Eww instant coffee...ewww.

Reply 8

charlotte m

I don't even like coffee! But when asked...! X X X

Reply 9

Aeris

15

"I'm going out for coffee want to come?"

"I really want to go to that cafe sometime this week, do you want to check it out?"

It's no big deal. :smile:

Reply 10

Profesh

20

paranoid_android

urgh are you suggesting date rape, you make me sick spiral.

Before leaping lemming-like to premature conclusions, I would suggest that you first consult this; then, look up 'idiot', whose definition has just recently been changed to 'you'.

Reply 11

sour stone

How ya gonna do that without asking it...

Just say:

"Would you like to come get a drink of coffee with me?"

If she says no, she's nasty and not worth going with
If she says yes, then well you're in there.

Alternatively you could ask her to come out for a drink of tea, and then get her coffee when you get there, that's an indirect route...

You shouldn't be so scared of rejection.

Reply 12

anjurdsg

11

are you all bloody kidding?

don't "ask" her.

TELL her that you're going to go to a local coffee shop sometime tomorrow and that she should hop along..

This way she cant reject...game over...

so_this_is_sam

i like nescafe, it tastes good.
oh you like coffee too?
Yes
Thats good
Umm...
starbucks is good for coffee
yes
ever been?
yes
i havent for a while, no one else really likes coffee
oh

lol sorry just kidding. the point of this it be direct, you just ask her. dont try and be subtle. be confident.

I totally agree