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Have you ever experienced a moment when your boyfriend or girl friend is leaving you and one feels like crying?
Is it infatuation or sure love?

Reply 1

so_this_is_sam

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Probably more that you are going to miss them
When you say leaving you, do you mean permanently or temporarily?

Reply 2

MagicNMedicine

20

If its for a long time I can understand it, but these people who start scriking because their partner is going on holiday for one/two weeks need to get a grip. It's something unhealthy and shows that you're a needy person - I always think it spells danger for the relationship if one partner is like that.

Same goes for people who text "r u missin me?" 5 minutes after leaving them. I tend to text back the honest answer and see if they can deal with it.

Reply 3

galactic_star

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so_this_is_sam

Probably more that you are going to miss them
When you say leaving you, do you mean permanently or temporarily?

you never know if you will meet her again or your heart wishes that she should be here at this very moment and i would bend on my knees and kiss her beautiful hand, she is very pretty, she has ocean like eyes and she is very kind too,she is an angel,
what ever you may say my friend, :smile:

Reply 4

andy_c

7

MagicNMedicine

Same goes for people who text "r u missin me?" 5 minutes after leaving them. I tend to text back the honest answer and see if they can deal with it.

I bet that goes down well!!??

Reply 5

strawberry

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lol honest answer as in "No I'm not really missing you"?

Reply 6

Talya

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galactic_star

you never know if you will meet her again or your heart wishes that she should be here at this very moment and i would bend on my knees and kiss her beautiful hand, she is very pretty, she has ocean like eyes and she is very kind too,she is an angel,
what ever you may say my friend, :smile:

Reply 7

Danny the Geezer

21

galactic_star

Have you ever experienced a moment when your boyfriend or girl friend is leaving you and one feels like crying?
Is it infatuation or sure love?

That is weird. That's what it is. Are boyfriends/ girlfriends, so indispensible, like they seem to be to everybody on here?

Reply 8

wendizzle22

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jaydoh

That is weird. That's what it is. Are boyfriends/ girlfriends, so indispensible, like they seem to be to everybody on here?

If you are in love with someone, they do seem indespensible. I'm not talking about high school where people claim they are in love, break up three weeks later and get a new boyfriend/girlfriend straight away. I mean when they become an important part of your life and you're so close it's as if they are part of you in a strange way. You don't want to dispose of that feeling and 'get another one' for no reason.
I wouldn't cry if my boyfriend was going away for a few weeks, but if I knew he was going to do something dangerous or be away for a very long period of time, of course I would! I don't know how my friend copes with her bf being in the army!

Reply 9

MagicNMedicine

20

jaydoh

That is weird. That's what it is. Are boyfriends/ girlfriends, so indispensible, like they seem to be to everybody on here?

You're spot on

When people are so needy it is a symptom of low self-confidence, they need their boyfriend/girlfriend to make them feel worth anything and without them their life falls apart.

Too many people mistake being in love with needing to have a partner, you can tell the ones who are like this because when they split up with somebody they act like the world has ended, and then a couple of weeks later they're "in love" with someone else again.

I agree with wendizzle though, if you find someone who you really click with then you wouldn't want to trade them for another person in the long run, but then I think when you find someone like that you are as comfortable with being apart as you are together, as long as it's not a majorly long term thing.

As regards worrying about people, that is another thing that puts me off. One of my female friends gets in a right tiz if her boyfriend doesn't answer his phone, she will start saying things like "but it's a long drive from Barnsley to Manchester....oh no..." Hint for girls - most men can take care of themselves and don't need someone checking they aren't dead every 5 minutes.

Reply 10

high priestess fnord

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MagicNMedicine

When people are so needy it is a symptom of low self-confidence, they need their boyfriend/girlfriend to make them feel worth anything and without them their life falls apart.

Too many people mistake being in love with needing to have a partner, you can tell the ones who are like this because when they split up with somebody they act like the world has ended, and then a couple of weeks later they're "in love" with someone else again.

I agree with wendizzle though, if you find someone who you really click with then you wouldn't want to trade them for another person in the long run, but then I think when you find someone like that you are as comfortable with being apart as you are together, as long as it's not a majorly long term thing.

As regards worrying about people, that is another thing that puts me off. One of my female friends gets in a right tiz if her boyfriend doesn't answer his phone, she will start saying things like "but it's a long drive from Barnsley to Manchester....oh no..." Hint for girls - most men can take care of themselves and don't need someone checking they aren't dead every 5 minutes.

your so right about that and i think more people should learn to appreciate the freedom of being single. saying that i hate it when me and my boyfriend are apart and i miss him as a person rather than a presence if you see what i mean. i dont feel right going to bed without him next to me. a week or two apart is a big deal t us because we spend so much time together!! not to mention the obvious omfg u want me to go two weeks without sex :eek:

ps hint to guys. women are not as weak as you think. a bruise will not kill us, nor will a day of aneamia induced pre period lethargy. stop worrying!!! and ffs sake stop fussing too!

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