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What does H+R think of an 18 year old male and a 15 year old girl being partners?
Everyone seems to think it's wrong...but if we were 50 and 47 then there would be no problem?
Everyone seems to think it's wrong...but if we were 50 and 47 then there would be no problem?
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wel its not so bad, it would just be an excuse for ur m8s to hav a laugh! i know one gd m8 whos 15, shes wiv a 22 year old, thats not right!
If you both have feelings for each other than go for it!
If you both have feelings for each other than go for it!
Anonymous
wel its not so bad, it would just be an excuse for ur m8s to hav a laugh! i know one gd m8 whos 15, shes wiv a 22 year old, thats not right!
If you both have feelings for each other than go for it!
If you both have feelings for each other than go for it!
I also had a mate in the same position.i have to admit tho that as being a veri close m8 of the girl concerned... who was wiv a 22 yr old, i was scared for her safety becos its kinda weird, why does a 22 yr old guy reali wanna F*** a 15 yr old. He had told her to tel no one else, but thankfully she told me, was kinda creepy!
so u dnt want anyone spreadin rumors bout u etc!
so u dnt want anyone spreadin rumors bout u etc!
the main problem is that shes underage!! 16 and 19 doesnt sound half as bad. i guess when ppl hear the age difference they probly see you as a bit of a perve. it totally depends on the people involved tho. if its her dragging you to bed then thats absolutely fine 
It's illegal, and if they have sex he could face a hefty prison sentence.
MB
MB
yer thats veri true.. but it happens all the time so i dnt think thats on the guys mind
Anonymous
wel its not so bad, it would just be an excuse for ur m8s to hav a laugh! i know one gd m8 whos 15, shes wiv a 22 year old, thats not right!
If you both have feelings for each other than go for it!
If you both have feelings for each other than go for it!
are you kidding?
when i was 16, i dated a 13-yr-old
and believe it or not, currently there's this 17-yr-old girl dating a 40-yr-old
creeps me out to my last nerves
Anonymous
i have to admit tho that as being a veri close m8 of the girl concerned... who was wiv a 22 yr old, i was scared for her safety becos its kinda weird, why does a 22 yr old guy reali wanna F*** a 15 yr old. He had told her to tel no one else, but thankfully she told me, was kinda creepy!
so u dnt want anyone spreadin rumors bout u etc!
so u dnt want anyone spreadin rumors bout u etc!
just because some one is dating someone older doesnt mean its all sex related im gonna use myself as an example
begining of year 9 - my boyfriend was 3 years older
year 10 - my boyfriend was 6 years older
and neither of them put any pressure on me
in fact I have been put under more pressure by guys closer to my own age - so as long as both of the people involved are completly comfortable and theres no pressure on either of them then age is a number and doesnt mattter
At the start of the last century, the age of consent was 12.
Now it's 16. However, many young people of both sexes think that that they are mature enough and see themselves as individuals and adults at that age- i.e. old enough to make their own decisions, to decide for themselves what they do and do not want to do.
In short, if she feels OK with it, then go for it. As MB says, though, don't have sex as she IS underage and you are technically raping her if you have sex.
Some other points- if girls of 13 are old enough to have babies and bring them up- two of my cousins were pregnant at 13, and are now bringing up the children- then a girl of 15 should be able to have a relationship.
Ina ddition, girls generally mature 3 years ahead of boys, so you've got the same mental age...
But I would advise caustion. Yes, go out, yes, have fun, but don't have full sex until she is over the age of consent. At the maximum you've got a year to wait, and if you love each other, not just lust, you will be able to wait.
Or just don't get caught...
Now it's 16. However, many young people of both sexes think that that they are mature enough and see themselves as individuals and adults at that age- i.e. old enough to make their own decisions, to decide for themselves what they do and do not want to do.
In short, if she feels OK with it, then go for it. As MB says, though, don't have sex as she IS underage and you are technically raping her if you have sex.
Some other points- if girls of 13 are old enough to have babies and bring them up- two of my cousins were pregnant at 13, and are now bringing up the children- then a girl of 15 should be able to have a relationship.
Ina ddition, girls generally mature 3 years ahead of boys, so you've got the same mental age...
But I would advise caustion. Yes, go out, yes, have fun, but don't have full sex until she is over the age of consent. At the maximum you've got a year to wait, and if you love each other, not just lust, you will be able to wait.
Or just don't get caught...
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At the start of the last century, the age of consent was 12.
Now it's 16. However, many young people of both sexes think that that they are mature enough and see themselves as individuals and adults at that age- i.e. old enough to make their own decisions, to decide for themselves what they do and do not want to do.
In short, if she feels OK with it, then go for it. As MB says, though, don't have sex as she IS underage and you are technically raping her if you have sex.
Some other points- if girls of 13 are old enough to have babies and bring them up- two of my cousins were pregnant at 13, and are now bringing up the children- then a girl of 15 should be able to have a relationship.
Ina ddition, girls generally mature 3 years ahead of boys, so you've got the same mental age...
But I would advise caustion. Yes, go out, yes, have fun, but don't have full sex until she is over the age of consent. At the maximum you've got a year to wait, and if you love each other, not just lust, you will be able to wait.
Or just don't get caught...
Now it's 16. However, many young people of both sexes think that that they are mature enough and see themselves as individuals and adults at that age- i.e. old enough to make their own decisions, to decide for themselves what they do and do not want to do.
In short, if she feels OK with it, then go for it. As MB says, though, don't have sex as she IS underage and you are technically raping her if you have sex.
Some other points- if girls of 13 are old enough to have babies and bring them up- two of my cousins were pregnant at 13, and are now bringing up the children- then a girl of 15 should be able to have a relationship.
Ina ddition, girls generally mature 3 years ahead of boys, so you've got the same mental age...
But I would advise caustion. Yes, go out, yes, have fun, but don't have full sex until she is over the age of consent. At the maximum you've got a year to wait, and if you love each other, not just lust, you will be able to wait.
Or just don't get caught...
i kinda agree with you, but the law always has to try to stick their beaks into everyone's ass
Sort of summing up, my opinion is, yes it's OK to have a relationship but don't have sex.
Niaya
just because some one is dating someone older doesnt mean its all sex related im gonna use myself as an example
begining of year 9 - my boyfriend was 3 years older
year 10 - my boyfriend was 6 years older
and neither of them put any pressure on me
in fact I have been put under more pressure by guys closer to my own age - so as long as both of the people involved are completly comfortable and theres no pressure on either of them then age is a number and doesnt mattter
begining of year 9 - my boyfriend was 3 years older
year 10 - my boyfriend was 6 years older
and neither of them put any pressure on me
in fact I have been put under more pressure by guys closer to my own age - so as long as both of the people involved are completly comfortable and theres no pressure on either of them then age is a number and doesnt mattter
not saying that its necessarily a sex related thing but there is a dangeruos potential for it to be seedy and just plain wrong. ppl are right to be wary of it.
anjurdsg
i kinda agree with you, but the law always has to try to stick their beaks into everyone's ass
It's there for a reason. On crimewatch last night there was a 13 year old girl who was forced to have sex with about 50 men (separately) and filmed. If the law weren't there to protect minors, that would all have been totally ok?
I find a lot of females immature at 18, let alone 15.
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