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Finally over her to an extent
Right after we broke up because of our different background this is the short to the point of what happened after the breakup -
We were close for the 1st month
Then on and off for another month
Then hardly contact in the third month
4th month we had arguments
5th month I decided to not communicate with her but in the end we did
6th month we came to a decission it was just best we deleted each other off the net, however she contactd me regarding her holiday in the last couple of days. We ended up talking and going on webcam for 1 day before she left for her holiday. We spoke that night and opened up about feelings and admitted we are still not over each other.
Right I dont feel like **** anymore because of her. I am not thinking about her 24/7 but yeah a day wont pass when I dont think of her.
We can never be together so that is never an option.
I still communicate with her even though I know she has mood swings and lies to me about random stuff yet I cant fully let go.
She claims shes on holiday and her phones are off as I tried texting her. I've sent her an email but she didnt reply, however she has been on msn once and shes updating her hi5 which I find weird.
I know its up to her regardless of her emailing me, but whats the big deal in letting me know shes ok and having a good time...
I've tried many times to just forget about her totaly but it just doesnt work.
What would you do?
We were close for the 1st month
Then on and off for another month
Then hardly contact in the third month
4th month we had arguments
5th month I decided to not communicate with her but in the end we did
6th month we came to a decission it was just best we deleted each other off the net, however she contactd me regarding her holiday in the last couple of days. We ended up talking and going on webcam for 1 day before she left for her holiday. We spoke that night and opened up about feelings and admitted we are still not over each other.
Right I dont feel like **** anymore because of her. I am not thinking about her 24/7 but yeah a day wont pass when I dont think of her.
We can never be together so that is never an option.
I still communicate with her even though I know she has mood swings and lies to me about random stuff yet I cant fully let go.
She claims shes on holiday and her phones are off as I tried texting her. I've sent her an email but she didnt reply, however she has been on msn once and shes updating her hi5 which I find weird.
I know its up to her regardless of her emailing me, but whats the big deal in letting me know shes ok and having a good time...
I've tried many times to just forget about her totaly but it just doesnt work.
What would you do?
Reply 1
I was like this with m last bf. after or break up he didnt want to speak to me or anything but he made me angry and when thinking bout things after i realised that it was the best thing to do in the end and by letting him know that i was gettin over him he decided he would talk to me and now were friends. i still think of him everyday and know that if i text him he wont alwys text bak but what can u do? dont want to make some1 else unhappy by making them do something they dont want.
good luck, maybe u just need a fresh start? try finding some1 else and u might realise it was for the best?
good luck, maybe u just need a fresh start? try finding some1 else and u might realise it was for the best?
Reply 2
chris101
OP
well she is interested as she told me she isnt over me and she still wears the necklace I bought for her.
Its just confusing.
I dont really want to date or find some 1 else. Im in for long term not short. If it happens with some 1 else then its good but I aint going out to fish.
Its just confusing.
I dont really want to date or find some 1 else. Im in for long term not short. If it happens with some 1 else then its good but I aint going out to fish.
Reply 3
It shouldn't take 6 months to get over someone. But it happens so don't worry.
The less you make contact with her the easier it will be. Just go cold turkey, delete her from everything. Out of sight...out of mind.
The first advice was the best, there's nothing better to cure the blue than a new flame! Don't try to contact her through email, text or phone because she obviously doesn't want you to, hence the white lies. Keep your dignity, put it down to experience and move on! Hope that helps.
The less you make contact with her the easier it will be. Just go cold turkey, delete her from everything. Out of sight...out of mind.
The first advice was the best, there's nothing better to cure the blue than a new flame! Don't try to contact her through email, text or phone because she obviously doesn't want you to, hence the white lies. Keep your dignity, put it down to experience and move on! Hope that helps.
Reply 4
Pretty Boy
She wears the necklace because she likes the necklace.
Just cos she says TO YOU that she isn't over you, doesnt mean she's interested
IMO you're grasping at straws.
Come on dude...
Just cos she says TO YOU that she isn't over you, doesnt mean she's interested
IMO you're grasping at straws.
Come on dude...
Exactement. She's letting you down gently, she's reciprocating the feelings you are showing just to make you happy. I've been there and got the t-shirt, girls are bitches like that sometimes, but she's only trying to be kind.
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