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What's happening?

Ok, so i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He's at uni. I'm not. We argue quite a lot over silly things but i love him and he loves me. I have a problem. There's this other guy who likes me, and i'm scared i've started to like him back...we get on really well and in a lot of ways he's just like my boyfriend, we've flirted quite a bit...i don't know what to do. I LOVE my boyfriend, i hate myself for this, i don't have a clue why it's happening. I'm not that kind of girl. I don't want to hurt anyone. Please help. x
I had a similar problem, but i was at uni my boyf was not. The only difference was although i loved m boyf we weren;t getting anywhere with the relationship, he had no excsue not to come and visit me at uni, but he wouldn't, it was the last straw when i went home for reading week and said he would come aover and it got to Sunday morning, his last oppurtunity to see me and he still didn't turn up, so my only option was to break up with him and the only way of doing it was to write him a letter. Some say this is cruel, breaking up with letter, but most see my point when i tell them that he had a whole week to come and see me and he didn't.
I had a similar problem, but i was at uni my boyf was not. The only difference was although i loved my boyf we weren't getting anywhere with the relationship, he had no excsue not to come and visit me at uni, but he wouldn't, it was the last straw when i went home for reading week and said he would come over and it got to Sunday morning, his last oppurtunity to see me and he still didn't turn up, so my only option was to break up with him and the only way of doing it was to write him a letter. Some say this is cruel, breaking up with letter, but most see my point when i tell them that he had a whole week to come and see me and he didn't.
Thats just my experience, it didn't work out. maybe you'll be lucky and it will be different for you. Talk with your boyf, tell him how you feel and where you think your relationship is going through your arguments and time apart.
Sorry about the dupilcate post, second one is slightly different.
Reply 4
sit down and think about your relationship with your boyfriend and what you want. how long have you known the other guy?
Reply 5
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how long have you known the other guy?

:ditto:
Depends how long you known him.
If you think that this guy is a better option just tell ur bf you don't think the long distance thing is working out and leave it at that then decide if you liek this guy enough.

Regardless of this new guy make up your mind do you want to be with your bf?
If ur not sure then u got problems and prob best not to be.
Well first maybe you should find out whats causing these arguments with your b/f and whether you two and work it out, but either way do not start flirting with this other guy unless you end it with your b/f