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how do you seem them just as a friend?

how can you get over someone and just see them as a friend when you know that you still love them a lot and they love you back but you just can't be together? (long distance)

Reply 1

smiley :)

occupy yourself with other things, see them less often. The less contact with them the better.

Reply 2

mousey

Or just try the long distance thing first. xx

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

mousey

Or just try the long distance thing first. xx

but he doesnt see how it would work because we arent really going to be able to meet for a pretty long time.. and he wants to be just friends and i guess thats practical but i still like him a lot.. and i think he does too. and dont want to lose contact with him.. i care too much about him to be able to do that.. i just want to see him as a friend and not anything more.. i guess dating other people would be a possible solution but i havent liked anyone and i dont feel like dating anyone i know really.. hmm ?? :confused:

Reply 4

Lirael Abhorsen

welll there's no easy way to do it i wouldnt think. but yeah time and distance does help, and try to take your mind off it with hobbies and activities

Reply 5

Lillybut

casual relationship?? just see them wen the come over etc
worked for me once :p:

Reply 6

wednesburywench

you cant, u have to let it run its course...and be thankful your friends. i cant see myself ever seeing my ex just as a friend, cus im always gona love him, but i try my best, for both our sakes, especially seeing as we were together 4 years! i thought we would be together...well forever now!