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Why Can't I Forget About Him?

Ok, this is a very long & complicated problem simplified!!

Basically I can't stop thinking about a guy I went out with 18 months ago. I don't know what it is really- I'm not in love with him & he has give me no endless reasons to hate him..... we were only going out fror 2 weeks but finished me on my 18th birthday :mad: , he treats girls like scum, etc but I can't get him out of my mind! He's just started going out with his ex who he was dating for 2 years before me & it just made it feel like whatever we 'had' meant nothing to him at all & all he said to me was a pack of lies.

I don't even know why I'm jeleous. I have a wonderful boyfriend who I love lots & we've been going out for a year now. I don't think about my ex when I'm with him (I'm guessing that is a good sign) though. I don't give any other ex another thoughtm but he really sticks in my head.

Any explanations? :frown:
Reply 1
I don't know why you like him, but if you want advice just focus on being happy with your bf and forget about the other guy. He obviously was and is no good for you, maybe you're just attracted to his looks (because he don't seem to have much by way of personality...(I don't like people who don't respect girls, sorry he might be lovely though I doubt it >.>; )).
Last guy you were with so you have nothing else to look back on?
Reply 3
He wasn't the lasy guy I was with. :redface: I think it maybe because he was mysterious. Since we split up, I've never known what he is going to do next. I actually turned him down when he asked me back out a couple of months later which killed me. I figured he'd just dump me again so I saved myself the pain.