How do you know if he likes you?

My boyfriend and I have been dating now for almost 2 months. They have been a great two months - thus far.

I have recently started to geel strongly for him, but do not know if he feels the same way…how do I tell if he feels the same way?

I talked to him about it, and he tells me that he does, but his actions contradict everything he says……how do I know for sure? I do not want to be wasting my time with someone if only I see a future together.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

you maybye too over freindly with him.

Reply 2

rosetinted

You can't force someone to like you more. You have started to develop a strong attachment but it doesn't mean he has to do the same right away or that he is unworthy of your time because he hasn't.

I have previously been at the start of a relationship where my partner was a lot more into me than I was into them. He asked me one day if I was as keen about him as he was about me. Now I take a while to become really attached to someone so I didn't want to lie and say I was enamoured when I wasn't. However he was a guy I could have seen myself growing to love and care about...so I didn't want to say no either. Lose lose situation.

Give him time and stop asking awkward questions like that and see how things go. Why should he automatically have to start having strong feelings at the same time you do? I agree it'd be nice to have him feel the same about you as you do about him, but this should be a natural process, not you demanding that he feel the same way as you.

Reply 3

c0co

Actions are equally as important as words. He may just be saying those things to get you into bed, especially when he's done nothing to show that he likes you.