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    my bf and i are going to have sex for the first time. Any tips or advice greatly appreciated!
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    use a condom
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    don't expect too much. it gets better with time.
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    Lots of foreplay... It made me so much more comfortable. And you need to be relaxed or nothing's going to happen heh.

    Good luck!... heh.
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    Use protection :]
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    well first things first, protection. If you are sure you are ready to take your relationship to the next stage then you definatly need to invest in some condoms. If you don't mind me asking, how you and your boyfriend decide when to have sex?
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    The most painful bit is when you smack your head on the head board. Apart from that it's plain sailing.
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    (Original post by Steve Stifler)
    The most painful bit is when you smack your head on the head board. Apart from that it's plain sailing.
    Tell me about it...
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    Have fun.
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    Well as for protection we are sorted. Its just our relationship has gone to a deeper level and we have spoke about it and we are comfortable enough to take this step together.
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    (Original post by Steve Stifler)
    The most painful bit is when you smack your head on the head board. Apart from that it's plain sailing.
    Lol. Seen.

    I once managed sheet burns which was just as painful.
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    (Original post by Spiral Architect)
    Lol. Seen.

    I once managed sheet burns which was just as painful.
    Yeah, have your sisters burns on her knees healed yet? Tell her I'm sorry and same time next week is fine, kisses
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    Try to relax and more importantly enjoy it! Think of me sat at home listening to the Smiths, wishing he was getting some.
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    Try to relax and make sure that you won't be interrupted!
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    Lots of foreplay, relaxes and moistens

    Don't take too long putting a condom on, otherwise you won't even manage it.

    Be gentle, plenty of chance to go mental with eachother in the future.

    Don't be afraid to stop if it hurts too much.

    Make sure you won't get interrupted

    Put some music on - the sounds will put you off

    and err, do it in a bed?
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    oh yeh, and as someone said, the first time is the worst time, don't be too disheartened if its ****.
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    and lock the door
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    Don't expect it to be the best sex of your life.
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    KY Jelly
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    Lie back and think of Britain!!
 
 
 
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