Ex bf and gettin back together, or is he leading me on?

Me and my ex split up just before christmas and i was gutted. We carried on as **** buddies for about a month, but i was getting to attatched and just made me feel like crap. I still see him quite a lot and i class him as one of my best friends. The thing is we are both overly flirty and last night ended up doing stuff over webcam. The thing is, I'm still not over him and would like to get back with him, however I'm not sure what to say as i don't want to be rejected and make things all awkward. When i try and talk to him, he never gives a straight answer. Sorry i probably sound really pathetic, but nevermind.

Reply 1

Purple

18

What was the reason for you splitting up? Do you think he still feels the same?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

He was dumped just before coming to uni, and i was kinda the rebound, although it lasted 3 months. He wasn't over his ex, so i suppose i was the fun he wanted. I don't know if he feels the same because hes always really flirty, i mean the things we did last night suggest he does like me, but then there are times he can be off with me.

Reply 3

smoke_my_pole

Sounds like he's leading you on, and doesn't really care about you. I know men like this, they're flirty only to get what they want, and it only makes it worse for you if you go along with it, no matter how much you want to.

Reply 4

Dhesi

2

Sounds like your being led on to me. If he liked you I recon he would do something about it.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks for that, i suppose i was deluding myself, but the truth hurts i guess.

Reply 6

MNBStyle

9

Anonymous

Me and my ex split up just before christmas and i was gutted. We carried on as **** buddies for about a month, but i was getting to attatched and just made me feel like crap. I still see him quite a lot and i class him as one of my best friends. The thing is we are both overly flirty and last night ended up doing stuff over webcam. The thing is, I'm still not over him and would like to get back with him, however I'm not sure what to say as i don't want to be rejected and make things all awkward. When i try and talk to him, he never gives a straight answer. Sorry i probably sound really pathetic, but nevermind.

I think he just likes you when he wants abit of fun, i mean splitting up didnt seem to be a problem for him but using you for no strings fun after that is ok for him.
I think it tells you something..

Reply 7

username47781

20

He is basically having is cake and eating it i'm afraid, stand up for yourself your better than this, tell him you will not have sex with him unless he makes a comittement to get back with you.

Reply 8

zav

14

Carl1982

He is basically having is cake and eating it i'm afraid, stand up for yourself your better than this, tell him you will not have sex with him unless he makes a comittement to get back with you.

Well put

Say your looking for a relationship not just casual sex and see what he thinks?
If its a no then atleast you knwo where u stand.

Ex bf and gettin back together, or is he leading me on?

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