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Friend would like to be more than friends but...

Right, so theres this guy who i have known since the start of college. we quickly became very good friends and still are. the problem being that i know how much he would like it to be more than friends.
it came close to it being more but i just felt that i couldnt do it. fo the last few mnths i have totally blanked that out and we have become even better friends during that time.
and now this whole ting has risen again to me. atm i want to be more than friensa with him, especially given circumstances that concern someone else, but that makes it more complicated, cos this friend has given me so much hel with this other someone and he is the only one i can talk about it to.


i think that maybe in the future something could possibly happen, but right now, i just couldnt. and im not sure how much this is affecting him, but at lest we can talk openly to each other about anything.

so i just wondered if anyone else has been in a similar situation, and what happened.
Reply 1
I went out with him, best decision i ever made. xx
Anonymous
atm i want to be more than friensa with him


Anonymous
i think that maybe in the future something could possibly happen, but right now, i just couldnt.


Now these are mutually exclusive. I reckon you should try and sort out what you think. Be careful though - there's no point ruing a good friendship on a whim.

MB
Reply 3
:ditto: Good advice right there! :smile: