The Student Room Group

Lesbian Crush

Right well im an 18yr old girl and been speaking to this girl on msn and ive noticed we have loads in common, she makes me laughs she seems like a genuine decent girl. I've seen pics and i think recently ive developed a bit of a crush on her i stare ages at her pics. which is weird i know ive never felt like this about a girl. ive also noticed i keep staring at girls i see in teh stret that i think are physcally attractive. ahhh what should i do?
Reply 1
Nothing wrong with liking girls its just sexual preference infact i know alot of my friends that are girls have bf but still fancy girls aswell.
It not an uncomman thing so just enjoy it i suppose twice the choice and if you get to go out with this girl u liek then great.
It may be that you just admire her and are confusing that feeling, and even if you do have a crush on her where's the harm? I'm bi but only a few people know which is why im posting as anon, there's nothing wrong with it, who knows she might feel the same way. Everyone gets crushes at some point, and the old cliche, it could just be a phase.
Reply 3
You can think someone's attractive and fascinating without fancying them. Its perfectly possible you admire her, are slightly jealous of how she looks (in a nice way). It doesn't necessarily mean you are gay/bi or anything, just aware of how other people look.
Anonymous
Right well im an 18yr old girl and been speaking to this girl on msn and ive noticed we have loads in common, she makes me laughs she seems like a genuine decent girl. I've seen pics and i think recently ive developed a bit of a crush on her i stare ages at her pics. which is weird i know ive never felt like this about a girl. ive also noticed i keep staring at girls i see in teh stret that i think are physcally attractive. ahhh what should i do?


Cut your hair short and rub in loads of hair gel so goes all spikey. Wear black clothes and dark purple lipstick. Thats what all the others do.
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You can think someone's attractive and fascinating without fancying them. Its perfectly possible you admire her, are slightly jealous of how she looks (in a nice way). It doesn't necessarily mean you are gay/bi or anything, just aware of how other people look.


Ditto. I wouldn't really call it a lesbian crush.
i felt like that for ages with my best mates gf, they were in a happy hetrosexual realtionship and it was the happyest i had seen my mate in ages, he was totally head over heals for her. then i relised it wasnt her i fancied, i just wanted a relationship like theres. You may turn out to be bi or lesbian you never know but its nothing to be ashamed of, but make sure you are and you havnt mixed up feelings for something there not.