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    Right well theres this lad at the end of my road and he's absoultely gorgeous i dont think he even knows i exist. I keep seeing him around etc and saw him the other week at a club although it was at the end of the night. How do i get talking to him etc ............

    My mate knows him through their dads working togetehr ahhhhh ehlp me otu ppl x
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    easy get your mate to help you out! good luck
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    So umm, why can't you have him? Sorry to say it, but sometimes you have to go out of your way a little to get things you want.
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    He might have a girlfriend ive seen him with someone. ahhh how do i get talking to him?
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    Pluck up the courage and go talk to him, its not difficult, you've nothing to lose.
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    If he lives nearby you, find an excuse to talk to him. You could always knock on his door pretending to be a travelling sailsman/jehovah's witness...or not. Just say 'hello' the next time you see him out and strike up a conversation about how you think he lives near u. Aim for 'casual' rather than 'stalker'.
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    So go over and talk to him next time im out. i couldnt do thta not if he didnt make eye contact with me first. ahhhhh
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    i'm in a somewhat similar situation as you. the only problem with mine is that my other close friend also likes him too and i don't think she knows i fancy the same guy as her.
    why don't you make up an excuse to go talk to him like say you dropped your ball in his garden or something. most probably the girl that you saw him with was just a close friend. hmm...the best way would be to ask your friend to help you out. anyhow, best of luck with your crush.
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    "Hey, I'm [name]. I've noticed you around, fancy a coffee?".

    What's so difficult?

    It's up to only ourselves to get what we want here in life.
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    I dont know i saw this girl with hima few times and alst sat night she was giong in to his house. Should i smile at him if i see him in this bar i go to.
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    and like keeping look over also get my friend to tlak to him and get me in the convo. the dropping the ball in his garden i dont know im 18 will look well wrong lol ........... any help appreciated
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    lol im sure it would! or he'll think im absolute nutcase just strolled out of hospital x
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    well you know me (actually you don't) i'm too lazy to scroll up and see if what you want answered has been.

    I think my post has done the objective though, so go and get him tiger!
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    im guesing that trick has worked by you dont think it will for me lol. go get him i will if i knew how............ ahhhhhhhh why does liking someone have to eb so complicated,
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    yes, yes. i thnk smiling at him when you're at the bar that you went to might do the trick.
    but if it still doesn't work, i was thinking that maybe you can write him a letter and tell him, "hello. i'm (your name); a neighbour of yours and was wondering if we could get together sometime whenever you're free". or maybe you could have a party at your house and invite him. just knock on his door and say, "hi. i live just along this road and on such a day at such a time, i'm going to have a party and was wondering if you'd like to come and join the fun" and then give a cute smile or do something flirtatious but do it subtlely. think that might do the trick as well.
    i know fancying someone can be problematic sometimes, but if you know what to do it won't be such an issue. as for me, i'm still thinking what i should be doing...should i just tell the guy that i fancy him or should i let my friend have him? *shrugs* ugh. i really don't know what to do.
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    tell him i know i should! hmmm how would i be able to get his mobile number or find out if he has msn, any ideas on that road?
 
 
 
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