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what should i do, anything???

OK as said in a previous thread i managed to get the email address of this girl l really like. I managed to pick up the corrage and ask her if she minded giving her thoughts on a song l wrote. Emailed her the saturday after we broke up, nothing; and then again her college address on the following wednesday (as l wasn't sure if i remembered it correctly) and to this day still nothing. I really wanna know why she hasnt replied, i mean she's normally sooo nice to me. The only thing i'm thinking is that i got her address wrong and she ignored my college one as she didnt recognise my real name 'edmund'.

Would it be foolish to try anything else?

My only slight 'guilty conscience' is that her best mate -whos also really sweet to me- did walk by as my mates were taking the pee outta me for getting this address n then not rememberring it. But she didnt look like she noticed, she smiled n said hi as normal. Plus she has enough trouble understanding me when im talking to her, let alone laughing loudly with mates.

What could this mean?? l know i'm really parranoid but i just want a few more signs!!
Reply 1
Maybe she doesn't have the internet at home?
Reply 2
Lib
Maybe she doesn't have the internet at home?

good thinking :wink: But wouldnt she tell me before giving her address?
Reply 3
Anonymous
good thinking :wink: But wouldnt she tell me before giving her address?


How much before the end of term did she give it to you? Might've been expecting you to email sooner, or maybe she just didn't think of it at the time.
Reply 4
Lib
How much before the end of term did she give it to you? Might've been expecting you to email sooner, or maybe she just didn't think of it at the time.
It was just before we left, so i emailed her about 24hours later. Had to ask when the best mate was there tho, i just hope there wasn't any 'ooooh he likes you' schoolgirly stuff
Reply 5
Anonymous
It was just before we left, so i emailed her about 24hours later. Had to ask when the best mate was there tho, i just hope there wasn't any 'ooooh he likes you' schoolgirly stuff


Might have to wait until you get back to find out then...

Of course, it might just be that she's got email but isn't a massive computer person and thus doesn't check it very often.
Reply 6
theres loadsa reasons for this...maybe her internets down or she doesnt check it much! or could be that the email went automatically to junk (mine does it to ppl too) ... dont stress too much...there is probably a very simple normal explanation!!
Reply 7
maybe she just doesnt like u in the way u do her:confused:
Reply 8
Y'all should learn, never text or email, always call.

Rejection is alot easier than uncertainty..

I think you should just leave it - you'll see her after easter and she probably just hasnt picked up your email to be honest :smile:
Reply 9
give it time - to be honest I would talk to her face to face. I mean e-mail is all nice and pretty, but it's better that you get to know everything face to face so that there are no 'assumptions.'
Reply 10
Talk to her and not on msn or email but to her face.
Reply 11
Emmalina
Y'all should learn, never text or email, always call
You've never heard my voice on the phone :biggrin: