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what's the best way to tell someone you fancy them?

say you know this guy who you barely talk to but somehow after years, you suddenly fancy him and miss him loads when he's not there near you. you feel like you want to call him or write him an email to ask him how he is but you're afraid by doing so, it would make it seem too obvious that you fancy him. any tips on what a person should be doing when they're in this position. should the person take it slow or should they just tell the guy that they fancy them?

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Reply 1

go to where he lives.
Ring the bell.
Slap him.
Kiss Him.
Walk out.

he'll call you for sure!

**dont laught or talk when you do it though...

Reply 2

you should definately tell him - (this might be shocking) but true.. i knew a girl who really loved this guy, and they had been out before, but she dumped him, and then a few months later, she realised wat a silly mistake she made, but she didnt know how to tell him.. but anyway, she loved him so much, but a few weeks later he died - but the point is, no point wasting precious time pondering all these things that he cud think! - just go for it :smile:

Reply 3

Mangaroo
go to where he lives.
Ring the bell.
Slap him.
Kiss Him.
Walk out.

he'll call you for sure!

**dont laught or talk when you do it though...


nice one! but i don't think i'd have the courage to do it. what if i end up slapping his mother by mistake. :biggrin:

Reply 4

lol ~ yeah you kind of need to open your eyes and have a ****load of adrenalin

Reply 5

better do it before her then ~ teheheh i saw you *anonymous* ~ secrets safe with me :P

Reply 6

amywalters
you should definately tell him - (this might be shocking) but true.. i knew a girl who really loved this guy, and they had been out before, but she dumped him, and then a few months later, she realised wat a silly mistake she made, but she didnt know how to tell him.. but anyway, she loved him so much, but a few weeks later he died - but the point is, no point wasting precious time pondering all these things that he cud think! - just go for it :smile:


awwww. i'm sorry for your friend :frown:
you think i should go for it, right? hmmm :hmmmm2: ...that might be a tad difficult since a friend of mine also fancies him too.

Reply 7

Mangaroo
better do it before her then ~ teheheh i saw you *anonymous* ~ secrets safe with me :P


thanks :wink: :redface:

Reply 8

do it like hugh grant in four weddings and a funeral,

' in the word of david cassidy when he was still with the Partridge family, bugger,bugger, bugger... I think I love you..'

works for me.

Reply 9

lick his face

Reply 10

err no, dont do that..

Reply 11

drawmeamonkey
lick his face


:eek: lick his face?! he'll be like...WTF???!!!

Reply 12

he'd get the message though, surely :p:

Reply 13

it wasn't an entirely serious suggestion, but the more i think about it...

i'd love it if someone came upto me and licked my face
i'd deffo get the message hehe

reminds me of alan partridge :rolleyes:

Reply 14

squirly
he'd get the message though, surely :p:


yea i know, he'd turn all red.
once i saw him blush because of what i did, but although his whole face turned red like a tomato, he still looked really cute.

Reply 15

Anonymous
yea i know, he'd turn all red.
once i saw him blush because of what i did, but although his whole face turned red like a tomato, he still looked really cute.


hehe, maybe if he's easily embarassed, face licking isn't such a good idea.

with a tart like moi, it'd get you everywhere :biggrin:

Reply 16

break into his house and write his name in your blood all over his bedroom walls, and leave pics of you doing it (so he knows it was you and doesn't think it was weird or anything)

Reply 17

"Hey. I fancy you. Do you feel the same way?"
(You will probably get either replyA: "Yes" or replyB: "No")

If A: Make out.
If B: Make out. Though you might get done for sexual harrassment.

Reply 18

It's much nicer when it occurs naturally. Telling someone you fancy them is a tad immature. :p:

Reply 19

oh man you guys are bloody hilarious. i'm not stupid as to break into his house and write my name all over his bedroom walls using blood. :biggrin: ginny in HP would most likely do it, but deffo not me. :p: