Ladies

Women like you make me feel misogynistic. What's the point in a relationship, if your partner doesn't treat you well? If you don't feel loved? Isn't really caring for someone the main thing, when it comes to love/romance? Is it all about sex, or physical attraction? Why not just have a succession of one-night stands, if so? How could you care about someone, who doesn't show any signs of caring about you?

Do you also like your men to beat their chests and growl? Exactly how far do you take this whole 'badboy' lusting? Is Ian Huntley your dream man? Jesus Christ.

dunno what misogynistic means but anyways. I don't actually know what the point is. To be honest .. and members of TSR who know me could probably tell you as well, I did actually just go out and have lots of one-night stands all the time but then I stopped and started going with my bf. Its hard to explain what he's like. He's not mean or nasty and he does show he likes me. He'll lie beside me and cuddle into me when we're sitting with our mates and give me kisses but he doesn't act all soppy and certainly won't tell me his proper feelings for me e.g. say he loves me or how much he likes me (although my mate said he told her he loved me as a secret ). And one time, me and him were with his mate and his mate asked him if he would ever tell a girl he loved her and he was just like "No chance:|". Right in front of me. But yeah um .. no i actually don't like my men to "beat their chests and growl". My bf just now has just started realising that. He used to always try and prove that he could batter everyone and start fights with his mates infront of me but now he's actually started taming down coz it doesn't impress me, I just like my men to be manly, not agressive. Although :| I have seen my bf go off his head big style before :| like getting a knife and threatning to stab people. But that wasn't nice.
Anyways I'm going on a total rabble here so I'll shut up now lol. Thanks if you actually read all that lol

I think every girl likes a sweet guy but it is unattractive when they appear overly keen - it's fun to have a bit of a chase at the beginning. I don't have the time of day for a guy that 'treats me mean' but no one who confesses there undying love within a few minutes of meeting - somewhere in the middle would be good!

I dunno what misogynistic means but anyways. I don't actually know what the point is. To be honest .. and members of TSR who know me could probably tell you as well, I did actually just go out and have lots of one-night stands all the time but then I stopped and started going with my bf. Its hard to explain what he's like. He's not mean or nasty and he does show he likes me. He'll lie beside me and cuddle into me when we're sitting with our mates and give me kisses but he doesn't act all soppy and certainly won't tell me his proper feelings for me e.g. say he loves me or how much he likes me (although my mate said he told her he loved me as a secret ). And one time, me and him were with his mate and his mate asked him if he would ever tell a girl he loved her and he was just like "No chance:|". Right in front of me. But yeah um .. no i actually don't like my men to "beat their chests and growl". My bf just now has just started realising that. He used to always try and prove that he could batter everyone and start fights with his mates infront of me but now he's actually started taming down coz it doesn't impress me, I just like my men to be manly, not agressive. Although :| I have seen my bf go off his head big style before :| like getting a knife and threatning to stab people. But that wasn't nice.
Anyways I'm going on a total rabble here so I'll shut up now lol. Thanks if you actually read all that lol

a fake in other words?

Oh my dear God. You don't like your men to be aggressive, yet you're with someone who's threatened to stab people? Hasn't it ever occured to you, that the sort of guy capable of doing something like that, would possibly also be capable of hitting his girlfriend, or cheating on her? You know, one of these days, you'll probably be posting on here about him having done something like this, and what's ironic is that they'll probably be a huge display of sympathy.

But, errr, yeah: whatever turns you on, I suppose.

Sounds like your doing the impossible...'changing' the bad boy!

I dunno .. I just feel like thats .. not manly Maybe its because my dads like that and doesn't show his feelings but if a guy was really sweet and sensitive and was always there for me I would be really really turned off. My bf just now is so not like that and if he changed one day I would probably dump him. :|

Yeah, 'cause lacking confidence is the worst crime in the world....

Yeah, 'cause lacking confidence is the worst crime in the world....

a fake in other words?

Yeah; she'll probably dump him, once the project's completed, and move onto the next knife-wielding maniac.

What type of guy do you prefer? Someone who treats you nice and is really sweet or someone who doesnt act like he totally cares and that is really .. not sweet ?

I was talking about this with someone and we both said that its a big turn off for us when a guy is really sweet and treats us like hes really really interested. Is it just us?