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so confused

in short
theres a guy i like and about a year ago i was told he liked me but i wasnt sure, then not long after that apparentyl he had a secret girlfriend. i dont really see him much anymore but we talk on msn and he's flirty but really inconsistent. i cant work out if hes being a tease and knows i like him or if he actually likes me but thinks i knocked him back.
im sooooo confussed.

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Reply 1
so ask him.
Anonymous
in short
theres a guy i like and about a year ago i was told he liked me but i wasnt sure, then not long after that apparentyl he had a secret girlfriend. i dont really see him much anymore but we talk on msn and he's flirty but really inconsistent. i cant work out if hes being a tease and knows i like him or if he actually likes me but thinks i knocked him back.
im sooooo confussed.


yeah just ask him. if you don't see him much then whats the worst that can happen? he says no, and you never have to see him again!

Ruthie xx
Reply 3
Mangaroo
so ask him.


how with out sounding really pathetic?
Reply 4
HI, BTW I WANT YOUR BABIES !!!


or...do you really want someone else to tell you how to entice a potential love of your life?

k...how about being blunt. If you are frank and confident, then its not shameful like being squirmy and unsure and basically pathetic.

Say something like:

Hey Yasir (the guy's name), we've been talking for a while now, and to be honest, im sick of it. When are you going to ask me out, stop being such a chicken.
Reply 5
omg!!! his name is yasir that is so weird!:rolleyes:
Reply 6
well your welcome! you know my advice is fabulous...i should probbly go pro.
Reply 7
direct him to this thread and say that you're the anonymous poster.
Reply 8
you should if i ran a magazine i would so pay you to do a colum (sp?)
Reply 9
no need to be bitchy, its good advice.

you sound like your not even going to talk to him because YOUR chicken.

"Hey Yasir (the guy's name), we've been talking for a while now, and to be honest, im sick of it. When are you going to ask me out, stop being such a chicken."

Its the perfect sentence if you dont want to come out pathetic. If you are so worried about looking desperate then your never going to get anywhere unless they ask you out first. And with a personality trait like that....
Reply 10
i wasnt being rude!!!!!!!!!!
Reply 11
oh..cool :biggrin:
Reply 12
girl if you're confused than I'm confused.

You tell us what to do. Lead the way anon! :biggrin:
Reply 13
Gnarl
girl if you're confused than I'm confused.

You tell us what to do. Lead the way anon! :biggrin:


what the hell!?:confused:
direct him to this thread and say that you're the anonymous poster.


Simple as.
Reply 15
You could just go for the traditional whack him over the head with a plank of wood and yell: "I love you for God's sake!"

Or alternatively write a soppy letter.. but hey- it's your call. :smile:
Reply 16
suuuuuuseh
You could just go for the traditional whack him over the head with a plank of wood and yell: "I love you for God's sake!"

Or alternatively write a soppy letter.. but hey- it's your call. :smile:


that would be great if i actually saw him....
and the letter would be good if i knew where he lived, but im not up for stalking so thats a no no
why does no one listen to my advice :frown:?
You could be more subtle than that. Just make it obvious that you are attracted to him and if he responds in turn you will know. It's pretty easy. You could end the MSN conversatino with a kiss and see if he responds as well. There is no need for rash measures. But ultimately you DO need an answer, so you might need to get pretty blunt :P
Reply 19
gideon2000uk
You could be more subtle than that. Just make it obvious that you are attracted to him and if he responds in turn you will know. It's pretty easy. You could end the MSN conversatino with a kiss and see if he responds as well. There is no need for rash measures. But ultimately you DO need an answer, so you might need to get pretty blunt :P


done the kisses and he sends them too. but doesnt everyone do that.
i guess i just have to be confident and ask.

and to the person who said send him here.... i think not.