Bum sex Watch
I tried it, and while it felt slightly different, and quite nice, but nothing particularly special. It's nice for when you want to try something a bit dirty, but I tend to find normal sex is nicer for the closeness feeling of sex. We did it again a couple of times, but was never much of an "oh we have to do that again" type thing. I don't think it's disgusting at all, though it is slightly kinky.
but it does feel pretty kinky and naughty, i think it's psychologically a turn on.
and to randomiser, i think everyone needs to use lube, otherwise it could be quite uncomfortable and potentially harmful
Just wondered what people's thoughts on this were. I told a close mate that I did this with my boyfriend (I'm a girl) and she was totally disgusted. So what do other people think? Would you do it? If you have what was your first experience like?
Feels weird i dont get whats so exciting about it id rather jst kiss and cuddle hehe
I guess its different for a gay man, we don't have an alternative point of entry, so we shut up and deal with it if it hurts
I'm surprised that so many of my hetro friends have tried it, the mind boggles. I suppose everyone likes something a little different from time to time.
Myth: You can't sit down for a week afterwards.
Unless you got really freaky there's no reason to feel sore after the deed is done.
On the subject of lubrication, it depends what was used. Some are absorbed easily, while with others you might want to take a quick shower.
As for cleanliness; would you have sex with someone that hadn't washed? I think its polite to be clean whatever area of the body you plan on visiting.
Consenting adults and all that. I think its a little weird, but I have no inherent problem with it. Whatever feels good I guess.