This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- OCR A-level Sociology Paper 3 (H580/03) - 14th June 2023 [Exam Chat]
- Why do people think it’s rude to ask where someone’s from?
- Discuss about restorative justices
- What is your Method to remembering AO3 Evaluation Points in Psychology?
- Nissan Assessment Centre
- can someone mark my q5 pls!
- Virgin first time using dildo.
- Asking about Culture
- Remote lectures?
- size
- Will my school notify the sixth form I'm applying to about my behaviour
- What do you need to do for a criminology degree? Is it worth it in work related field
- Forensic science or criminology?
- Ladies, would you date a guy who has vitiligo
- 2024 Aqa A level Psychology Papers
- Does anyone do this ? What do you think I should do?
- Drug Driving Conviction and being able to study nursing?
- Accredited Psychology issues
- Higher English 2025 Prelim
- Hooking up and feeling guilty
Offended or not? That is the question...
Hi everyone,
I start apologizing fto us for my English which is really bad.
I really need your opinion and I hope you can understand me.
My boyfriend is English and we're together since 1 year and a half. During this period I have always invited to my home with my family whom I have introduced him to. He has never invited me, instead. Should I feel offended or not?
I start apologizing fto us for my English which is really bad.
I really need your opinion and I hope you can understand me. My boyfriend is English and we're together since 1 year and a half. During this period I have always invited to my home with my family whom I have introduced him to. He has never invited me, instead. Should I feel offended or not?
Scroll to see replies
ItalianGirl
Hi everyone,
I start apologizing fto us for my English which is really bad. I really need your opinion and I hope you can understand me.
My boyfriend is English and we're together since 1 year and a half. During this period I have always invited to my home with my family whom I have introduced him to. He has never invited me, instead. Should I feel offended or not?
I start apologizing fto us for my English which is really bad.
I really need your opinion and I hope you can understand me. My boyfriend is English and we're together since 1 year and a half. During this period I have always invited to my home with my family whom I have introduced him to. He has never invited me, instead. Should I feel offended or not?
How often are you both in the same country as his parents? (England I assume?)
Yes, his parents know that he has a girlfriend, but he doesn't talk a lot about his personal things to his parents.
We see each others every 2 months more or less, and always in Italy.
We see each others every 2 months more or less, and always in Italy.
The reason you haven't met his parents then is because they live in England and you are always in Italy. Or have I misunderstood?
Yes, the idea of the flight it's very good. I thought to do it. What do you think he will react to such this surprise?
ItalianGirl
Yes, the idea of the flight it's very good. I thought to do it. What do you think he will react to such this surprise?
OK, perhaps not a surprise, but buy the tickets and then tell him so he can't talk you out of it (if he doesn't want you to come over, he will then have to admit it)
I don't know how to tell him that I feel a bit offended that he hasn't invited me to England yet...and I worry that he won't understand how I feel, because probably for him it's a normal thing not to invite me...
talya, thanks! It's a very good idea! Untill he will admit that he doesn't want me there I can't tell him that I feel offended.
You're right!
You're right!
Maybe he has a girlfriend in England that he doesn't want to you to accidentally meet?
Hopefully not! When I tried to tell him about it, he just answered that I was offending him because he loves me and tries to show me his love every day and if I have such this suspicion it means that he can't show me all his love for me...ItalianGirl
When I tried to tell him about it, he just answered that I was offending him because he loves me and tries to show me his love every day and if I have such this suspicion it means that he can't show me all his love for me...
Definitely sounds to me like he is trying to hide something. Men are always defensive like that when they are lying. He probably does have gf
Talya
Definitely sounds to me like he is trying to hide something. Men are always defensive like that when they are lying. He probably does have gf
How the hell did you come to that conclusion so early!? Could it not be that he doesn't get on with his parents? Maybe the reason he went to Italy was to get away from his parents!
spunk trumpet
How the hell did you come to that conclusion so early!? Could it not be that he doesn't get on with his parents? Maybe the reason he went to Italy was to get away from his parents!
Surely he'd just explain that to her then? Clearly he is hiding some totty.
Do you have his phone number? Phone when you know he is out and see who picks up. If it's a parent, introduce yourself and see their reaction.
Talya
Surely he'd just explain that to her then? Clearly he is hiding some totty.
Talya
Do you have his phone number?
Are you hot? If so, yes go now.
You can tell him my email so he can thank me later.
You can tell him my email so he can thank me later.
Maybe he just isnt comfortable getting you involved with his family. There could be something going on between him and his parents that he just doesnt want to involve you in.
Hmm, have you asked him why he has never introduced you to his family? I can see why you might feel offended but i would try to find out more first- perhaps he has a sick parent/ "unusual" family situation and feels too ashamed/ embarrased to tell you about it?
Lou
xxx
Lou
xxx
My conclusion is that he's not comfortable introducing me to his parents, at least he's a bit shy...
I decided I won't invite him anymore to Rome, so if he misses me and wants to see me he'll probably invite me.
By the way, next year I'll go to England to study...I'll see!
I decided I won't invite him anymore to Rome, so if he misses me and wants to see me he'll probably invite me.
By the way, next year I'll go to England to study...I'll see!
Related discussions
- OCR A-level Sociology Paper 3 (H580/03) - 14th June 2023 [Exam Chat]
- Why do people think it’s rude to ask where someone’s from?
- Discuss about restorative justices
- What is your Method to remembering AO3 Evaluation Points in Psychology?
- Nissan Assessment Centre
- can someone mark my q5 pls!
- Virgin first time using dildo.
- Asking about Culture
- Remote lectures?
- size
- Will my school notify the sixth form I'm applying to about my behaviour
- What do you need to do for a criminology degree? Is it worth it in work related field
- Forensic science or criminology?
- Ladies, would you date a guy who has vitiligo
- 2024 Aqa A level Psychology Papers
- Does anyone do this ? What do you think I should do?
- Drug Driving Conviction and being able to study nursing?
- Accredited Psychology issues
- Higher English 2025 Prelim
- Hooking up and feeling guilty
Latest
Trending
Last reply 1 month ago
Engineering vs. Medicine: Stuck Between Dreams and ExpectationsLast reply 1 month ago
heyyy , im new heree and im willing to have some friends xxxLast reply 1 month ago
Im 16 and never had a gf and it doesnt feel ok.
