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This is a serious thread. I've considered doing it (some people call it 'rimming') to certain girls I've been with but never had the courage to ask. I'm talking about girls who were very hygienic and clean in that area...

Considering that it's such a sensitive area, I was thinking that a girl would find it pleasurable (once she's got over the idea).

What are your views?

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Tuchus lingus, tossing the salad, rimming, chewing on the old chocolate starfish.

Well, as a girl I can safely say that personally it does nothing for me. Better to concentrate your efforts a few inches up. Have you been on the receiving end? It does seem to be a boy thing... maybe if you did it to a girl you think she'd be more likely to reciprocate? Is it actually cause you want to do it?

Word of advice: talk about it before straying downwards. Is not a pleasant surprise.
you could always slip and see how she reacts? hehe do you ever use your finger? that might be a pre curser...Mind you if it were me I'd want you to wash your mouth before you kissed me (know it's a bit unfair as he's going down but still!) I used to know a girl who went on and on about how great it was, but I've never tried it..You never know until you do tho!
I think if my boyfriend tried it, although I'm positive he'd never want to, I'd definitely stop him coz that part of my body never really occurs to me as something I ever want explored. Every girls different though, so I'm only speaking on my own behalf.
Urgh can I just say, wouldn't it taste vile??
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Anonymous
Tuchus lingus, tossing the salad, rimming, chewing on the old chocolate starfish.

Well, as a girl I can safely say that personally it does nothing for me. Better to concentrate your efforts a few inches up. Have you been on the receiving end? It does seem to be a boy thing... maybe if you did it to a girl you think she'd be more likely to reciprocate? Is it actually cause you want to do it?

Word of advice: talk about it before straying downwards. Is not a pleasant surprise.


No I don't think I would want a girl to do that to me, simply because I think it would be gross for her (on a guy, that area is really hairy) and I don't think I'd enjoy it.

I think it's because the last girl I was with was amazingly clean in that area and when licking her from behind, I almost felt tempted... If you know that the person doing it genuinely doesn't mind, surely it can only be pleasurable (even if it's only a bit).

Sorry for starting the thread. The "bum sex" thread got me thinking...
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In my opinion, feel free to disagree (with reason!) anal sex is for guys who are bored of their girl friend and don't mind causing them discomfort at their pleasure and undignifying their girl friend. ~ eh wrong thread, but still this kinda applies ~ you shall be tempted soon enough!
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NobodyReally
Urgh can I just say, wouldn't it taste vile??



my concerns exactly!
Reply 8
This to me is 100% NOT a turn on, and if my bf ever tried anything like that on me (even though i know he wouldn't) i would make sure he remembered never to do it again. I don't see that part of your body as anything sexual. Yuck.
Mangaroo
In my opinion, feel free to disagree (with reason!) anal sex is for guys who are bored of their girl friend and don't mind causing them discomfort at their pleasure and undignifying their girl friend. ~ eh wrong thread, but still this kinda applies ~ you shall be tempted soon enough!



While I can see your point of view, I want to accept your invitation to disagree with reason :smile: Some guys (and girls) do really enjoy it. The thought of it does not float my boat, but I've got a mate (she's a bit sick in the head to be honest) who likes the discomfort of it. Some people just like new, different (ahem, weird) things I suppose :smile:
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Yeah, but for the guy to suggest it...
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Stupid question and I think I should know this but I've never been too observant: girls don't get hair in that area right?

It just surprised me on the last girl I was with how clean and smooth it seemed to be there :confused: Maybe she took care of it a lot because it seemed quite different... :confused:
Anonymous
No I don't think I would want a girl to do that to me, simply because I think it would be gross for her (on a guy, that area is really hairy) and I don't think I'd enjoy it.

I think it's because the last girl I was with was amazingly clean in that area and when licking her from behind, I almost felt tempted... If you know that the person doing it genuinely doesn't mind, surely it can only be pleasurable (even if it's only a bit).

Sorry for starting the thread. The "bum sex" thread got me thinking...

It's not that gross to do and men can find it really pleasurable - I suppose the closest they can get to the warmth and niceness of oral sex on a girl. Maybe that's your next target :wink:

I think you need to be really open before you do that. Maybe I still have some reservations sexually but I think girls are more aware of being 'clean' and 'nice' for men and doing that, there is a bit of a contradiction. It's not something you should do by surprise - bit if you're approaching from behind I would say it's more expected than at any other angle - but you do want to mention that you're going to try it beforehand. Perhaps start with... *explictness*

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I think it's different on every girl, same as most things. I wouldn't expect a girl to be overly hairy in that area. I personally am not :smile:
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thats not how i saw it!
From a boys point of view, it feels like nothing else. Its a little odd at first and obviously you have to worry about it bieng icky down there but if you can get over that and you have a girl who is willing to do it, then its something to really enjoy.
You could never force anyone to do it but if you discuss it first then you might both get something out of it :smile:
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NobodyReally
I think it's different on every girl, same as most things. I wouldn't expect a girl to be overly hairy in that area. I personally am not :smile:


not overly hairy or no hair at all?
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err theres usually hair there...wait..how old is your girl friend?
Reply 18
Anonymous
bit if you're approaching from behind I would say it's more expected than at any other angle -


so would most girls not be surprised if a guy started doing that if he was already pleasuring her from behind with his mouth?
Eurgh.

Some girls may like it.

It doesn't float my boat.