well we all know that.
i'm a fairly nice person. i guess u could say i'm friendly and quite sweet at times, but it's still good to express you opinions and make a joke of it to lighten to situation... it still somehow always gets come back to you.
it's probably not "*****iness" as such, but having a laugh. sometimes at the expense of others? i know that sounds harsh but it seemed alright at the time, a little joke among friends maybe, but somehow it gets out and i always seem to be the person taking the blame for it.
what annoys me most is that they seem to react more severely to me than others. if it was someone else whose known for being controversial does it, people will just shrug it off. everyone says stuff about people, maybe i'm just friends with the wrong people who tell others what i tell them. maybe i should just never say anything anymore...
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*****iness never pays off... watch
- Thread Starter
- 14-04-2006 15:02
- 14-04-2006 15:52
Things always seem worse from your own point of view than they really are though.. But you are right, its never good to be *****y.. But to be honest - i really have never met one person that has never *****ed about someone! C'est la vie i guess...
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 14-04-2006 16:13
maybe i should just never say anything anymore...
It's best to only "*****" to peope you REALLY trust. *****ing always gets back to you and you get a bad reputation which is hard to shake off. I wouldn't even join in with other people *****ing. It's not like you're really getting anything out of it by doing it. Youget more respect for not doing it than the momentary appreciation of being cutting.